Quoting Andrea Nickles:" I really don't want a C-Section but its more likely ill end up getting one then id rather just get it ... [snip!] ... rather than go through all the labor and pushing just get cut anyway!! I don't even know if i have a choice on what to try."
You have a choice as long as your baby is not in destress they can not force you to have a C-section it's against the law. If I was you I would maybe ask to have a meeting with a couple of different OB's in the practice and see what they say to get another opinion some doctors are just not that confident and don't want to take the time to try others have been doing it longer and are able to handle it. It's just a matter of finding one that will be an advocate for you instead of limiting you to only what they want you to do.