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If your teenage son...

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re: If your teenage son...

posted 17th Dec
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" What if she.didn't plan to keep it?"</blockquote> I can't answer that because it would depend on the circumstances."

 
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I'm due August 31st (a girl) & live in Bat Cave, North Carolina
posted 17th Dec
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" got a girl pregnant and her parents kicked her out, would you let her stay with.you?"

Of course. Id help them all I could, no matter what decision she was making.
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I have 1 child & live in Golden, Colorado
posted 17th Dec
didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or adoption? I would offer to adopt the baby and hope she'd still want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time.
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I have 3 kids & live in Washington
posted 17th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" What if she.didn't plan to keep it?"</blockquote> I can't answer that because it would depend on the circumstances."</blockquote>




What kind of circumstances?
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I live in Maine
posted 17th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or adoption? I would offer to adopt the baby and hope she'd still want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote>




Adoption
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I live in Maine
posted 17th Dec
Quoting Just Emily  :" I mean why did her parents kick her out? Is she a selfish brat who wants to party and mooch while I watch ... [snip!] ... of the baby and be polite and respectful then sure. Eta: in the first situation I'd still take care of the baby if need be."

I'd do it especially in that case.
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I have 3 kids & live in Oregon
posted 17th Dec
I would but my son would have to work & if I had younger children my soon wouldn't be sleePing in the same room with her.
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I'm due January 6th, have 3 angel babies & live in Florida
posted 17th Dec
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or ... [snip!] ... want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote> Adoption"

Well I'd offer to adopt the baby and hope that she would get on her feet and still want to be involved (like spending weekends with her) as the child grew up. It would be such a hard decision to make though.
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I have 3 kids & live in Washington
posted 17th Dec
Absolutely. But she will pull her own weight around the house and my son will get some kind of job to support themselves.
I know exactly how it feels to be kicked out just because you're pregnant.
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I'm due August 19th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Clinton Township, Michigan
posted 17th Dec
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" got a girl pregnant and her parents kicked her out, would you let her stay with.you?"

Yes.
Although my son and her would not be sharing a room.
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I have 2 kids & live in Maryland
posted 17th Dec
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or ... [snip!] ... want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote> Adoption"


I'd let her stay until a few months after she had the baby.
Just because it could turn into such an awkward situation for my family and my son. Chances are they won't stay together forever and I'd want him to have a shot at being a teenager and not have to worry about his ex girlfriend living with him.
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I have 1 child & live in Pennsylvania
posted 17th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the ... [snip!] ... I can't answer that because it would depend on the circumstances."</blockquote> What kind of circumstances?"</blockquote>


If she had no other family, was going to be on birth control, still wanted support, etc. Essentially, I'd be helping taking care of someone else's kid here...
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I live in Georgia
posted 17th Dec
Yes I would, if she was giving it up. I'd ask if I could adopt the baby. And speak to my son and be sure that's what he wanted as far as adoption because both parents have to agree.

Also I'd let her stay until she could support herself, I'd make her get a job! I'd give her a time frame from after the baby was born.
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I have 1 child & live in Lynnwood, Washington
posted 17th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or ... [snip!] ... want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote> Adoption"</blockquote>

In that case, M and I would try our damnest to adopt the baby.
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I live in Georgia
posted 17th Dec
Yes, I would let her stay. Unless she was some kind of crack head thief or something.

I'd continue to let her stay when the baby was born, too. I'd be treating her like a renter, basically. If her and my son were having a baby, they would need to act like adults and I would be treating them like adults.

If she wasn't keeping the baby, I would still let her stay.
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I have 1 child & live in Alabama
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