Im so depressed. :(

My husband and I are divorcing. He made a bad choice.and.cheated on me. I dont like to talk bad about him, because before that he was an excellent husband and daddy.

Well I try and do the best I can. I have a full time job.. But I dont make squat. :/ & ive been so stressed for money. Bills just keep pilling up. Because before I'd pay my phone bill, I will make sure my daughter has what she needs. I hate it. I hate nickel and diming it.   now my daughter needs a surgery and I cant even afford to take off from work to take her. Im so stressed out.

Lately, ive been super depressed. Ive never been the type to be depressed. But I often wake up in the morning.. Upset I have to live another day. Have to stress another day, be depressed another day. I know how selfish that is.. I just cant shake this feeling inside.. Of just wanting to die. :/ im so lost and dont know what to do anymore. How the heck am I gonna come up with $300 so my daughter can have her surgery. She has a cyst on her temple.. And it turns green and black.. Abd they say its very dangerous because if it poped it on her temple.  

Sorry for the long vent. I just needed to let it out :'(

Is there anyways her insurance will cover it? Or are you on CHIP type insurance of any sort?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Laventure_Adventure:</b>" Is there anyways her insurance will cover it? Or are you on CHIP type insurance of any sort?"</blockquote>




I'm so sorry   you sound like such a strong mama. Can dad not pay? Can you borrow from a family member?

Have you spoken to the child's father to help out financially?

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" My husband and I are divorcing. He made a bad choice.and.cheated on me. I dont like to talk bad about ... [snip!] ... they say its very dangerous because if it poped it on her temple.   Sorry for the long vent. I just needed to let it out :'("

I would call the hospital and setup a payment plan as soon as you can for your lo's surgery

Please also speak to someone, you seem like you are in danger of becoming more depressed.

I'm so sorry for your situation

I'm so sorry you're going through all of that. how old is your DD? some states will pay for surgery for children. My younger sister had to get her appendix taken out, and the state of MN paid for that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Laventure_Adventure:</b>" Is there anyways her insurance will cover it? Or are you on CHIP type insurance of any sort?"</blockquote>



Shes on his insurance at work. And theres a.copay.. Medicine she will.need. And after doctor visits.

And yes, the dad knows about her surgery. And hes trything the best he can also. But hes left with the mortage and stuff from our divkrce. So hes tight on cash to.

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" I would call the hospital and setup a payment plan as soon as you can for your lo's surgery Please ... [snip!] ... also speak to someone, you seem like you are in danger of becoming more depressed. I'm so sorry for your situation "</blockquote>



I really do need to see someone. I often catch myself asking to.not be woken up the next morning. And it scares me.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" I would call the hospital and setup a payment ... [snip!] ... I really do need to see someone. I often catch myself asking to.not be woken up the next morning. And it scares me."

Please do hun

but in the meantime you can pm me if you want to talk.

wishing you guys all the best

You could call your local welfare office and see if there is any way your daughter can get on secondary insurance through them. I am sorry this is affecting you momma! 

Hey mama have you tried to get her on chip or medicaid? I'm almost positive that you will qualify. I'm so sorry that you are feeling this way and just remember that I'm here if you need to talk. I'd even be willing to meet up with you if you need someone in person. *hugs*