Okay so had a smurffy saturday. Dh had his brother and his gf come stay with us like they do every other weekend. Well they ALL got toasted. Which led to BIL and his gf fighting for a few hours. Then they make up, then me and dh start fighting because I was saying that if no one can remember to put the baby lock on the sliding glass door then NO ONE is to go out back after I lock it. Because someone is always forgetting to do it. And I will not risk waking up and ds being outside alone, or worse gone. He then goes SHUT THE SmUrf UP. You aren't going to tell me what to do. So I screamed you will not continue to tell me to shut the smurf up. So I told him that I was sick and tired of him thinking he can talk to me like that. And that he is always putting himself before his family. He told me I wasn't leaving. Which just contradicts his biggest saying. "You aren't going to tell me what I am going to do" My mom showed up we went and stayed with her. Oh mind you that this was at freaking 10:30 p.m. He seriously is doing a GREAT job at working on being an ex husband. Idk we made up sunday and had a decent day, but Im just seriously over his insensitive selfish ass. He called me at work was asking for me to deposit a check I told him I needed him to come buy my work before lunch to sign it, and hes like no Ill come when I get off, you can wait. Umm no I have an appt and will not have time to go to the bank after work before my appt, and he was like what do you have an appt for. Um you do realize I have a appt every week..... I am pregnant. UHHH SORRY Im so smurfing ANNOYED!