Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" The name thing is ridiculous. But uh, she's the devil because she asks how much weight you've gained ... [snip!] ... rubs your belly? Have you asked her not to? A lot of people did both of those things to me, never thought anything of it...."
Yeah, I've told her my skin is really tight & sore so I don't really like to be rubbed but she just keeps on & laughs about it. As far as the weight thing, it's not that she does it its how she does it. For example I was eating a handful of M&Ms that she bought me & she asked how much weight I gained & if I thought I could manage to stretch my clothes any farther. It's just rude considering we aren't nor ever have been close.
There are a lot of things that my MIL does that I consider rude or irritating, that even my husband gets annoyed about but everyone has their own tolerance limits.