please give me advice

I'm at work in tears right now, i need some advice.

My husband left our kids at home in bed this morning after i left for work and ran to the store around the corner. I am BEYOND pissed, seriously considering leaving over this. How the hell can he leave my babies at home by themselves?!??!

Uh wtf. That's terrible!!!!! What the hell did he think he needed so bad to leave his kids alone? Ya I would not trust him.

he said he needed milk and stuff, i am so pissed off..

and he doesn't see a problem with it

THEY ARE 3 AND 22 MONTHS what the hell is wrong with him

I would leave work. I would not trust DH with DD a second later if he pulled some smurf like that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" he said he needed milk and stuff, i am so pissed off.. and he doesn't see a problem with it THEY ARE 3 AND 22 MONTHS what the hell is wrong with him"</blockquote>

Honestly, I'd call the police so he could be lectured on the seriousness of his actions.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" he said he needed milk and stuff, ... [snip!] ... is wrong with him"</blockquote> Honestly, I'd call the police so he could be lectured on the seriousness of his actions."</blockquote>




I agree. I would never be able to trust him againZ

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" I would leave work. I would not trust DH with DD a second later if he pulled some smurf like that."</blockquote>


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He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from the store so he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road

i just wanna leave i keep crying

How long was he gone?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from ... [snip!] ... he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote>




What an ass. I would leave work.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stl mama:</b>" How long was he gone?"</blockquote>




You are kidding right?

Quoting Stl mama:" How long was he gone?"

he says 5 minutes but i know thats not possible. I dont even leave my kids in the car while i pay for gas, i bring them in with me.

He doesn't understand how wrong this is

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I ... [snip!] ... litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote> What an ass. I would leave work."

I want to leave so bad cause i work at a front desk and i just keep crying cause i am so hurt that he would just leave them there.... If i leave i would get fired im sure

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from ... [snip!] ... he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote>

I've actually had this discussion with other moms. One mom used to leave kids in bed to run the other kids to school. I think people do it, they just don't admit it.
I don't think it's necessarily the smartest thing to do, but I could think of a ton of things that are way worse.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from ... [snip!] ... he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote>

Oh smurf that. It's not your fault. It's his responsibility to take them with him where ever he goes. Although if you were out of milk and knew it I could see why he would be pissed. It is rude to take the car seats and not have supplies on hand for the kids. Regardless though, he made the decision to handle things the way he did.

He needs to accept responsibility for his actions and choices he made.