Plan B one step

I had my LMP november 10th, and my BF and i were on a break and I hooked up with one of my ex boyfriends who i'm really good friends with on november 26th. my cycle is 31-32 days. my BF and i got back together a week or so later, and we also had sex before this occurence (around thanksgiving) and after... I took a test a little while ago and got two bold lines... I dont know what to do or to think or say... except.. I'm an idiot... Please dont judge me.. I need advice right now.

Quoting Platypus:" I had my LMP november 10th, and my BF and i were on a break and I hooked up with one of my ex boyfriends ... [snip!] ... lines... I dont know what to do or to think or say... except.. I'm an idiot... Please dont judge me.. I need advice right now."

Tell them both the truth don't put it off that will only make things worse in the long run

Ooh that's tough. Talk to your bf. see what he thinks about your beig preg with another guys baby. It does timeout to be your friends   that's too bad. Or maybe it's good. Idk.

Well I would start with figuring out what you are going to do. You can get abortion, do adoption, or keep the baby. It's too late to use Plan B, as plan B prevents pregnancy it's not an abortion pill. You can get abortion pill or go the surgery route.

If you keep baby or put up for adoption then be honest with your boyfriend and get a paternity test once baby is born. It's good to know who the biological father is just for medical reasons.

Well you can't use Plan B (that is for 48-72 hours after unprotected sex) if that is what you were wanting to ask due to your title.

Way too late for plan B at this point. Does your boyfriend know you slept with the other guy?

Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:" Well you can't use Plan B (that is for 48-72 hours after unprotected sex) if that is what you were wanting to ask due to your title."

 

I'm kind of in the same boat as you right now. PM me if you want to talk.

I took the plan B pill right after we had sex. We had sex on the 23rd and i took the pill on the 24th... An ultrasound could tell me what week i conceived right? Ive never heard of the pill NOT working... But i know nothing is 100%.. They both know the situation, but my BF doesnt know im pregnant yet since he's at work..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Platypus:</b>" I took the plan B pill right after we had sex. We had sex on the 23rd and i took the pill on the 24th... ... [snip!] ... But i know nothing is 100%.. They both know the situation, but my BF doesnt know im pregnant yet since he's at work.."</blockquote>


When did u have sex with your bf again after the other guy?

It would seem that it would be your friends baby since you had sex with your bf a week later (roughly the 30th-1st). It's only the 16th now so you likely wouldn't be getting a bfp from sex you had just 17 days ago.

Quoting Platypus:" I took the plan B pill right after we had sex. We had sex on the 23rd and i took the pill on the 24th... ... [snip!] ... But i know nothing is 100%.. They both know the situation, but my BF doesnt know im pregnant yet since he's at work.."

Possibly but that shouldn't be the way of determining who the father is. The dates of sex were way to close together and sperm can live for a while inside you

Did you have unprotected sex with both of them?

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Platypus:</b>" I took the plan B pill right after we had sex. ... [snip!] ... know im pregnant yet since he's at work.."</blockquote> When did u have sex with your bf again after the other guy?"

I believe it was 5-7 days later. but im wondering if maybe i ovulated later than i thought, which has happened. Especially because I have ovarian cysts, sometimes i even miss my period for no reason.

I would advise going to Planned Parenthood and talking to one of the counselors there about your options. PPH can also prescribe you a pill to make the pregnancy terminate, should you decide to go that route. If you decide to continue the pregnancy, you HAVE to be honest with both guys. There is a prenatal paternity test, but it's risky and could cause the pregnancy to self-abort from the trauma. If you continue the pregnancy and decide to give the child up for adoption, it's advisable to get a paternity test done so you can have the correct medical history and have the father sign over his rights to the child so they can be put up for adoption.

You really need to go talk to a professional, though.