re: Depressed

He wasn't happy but we r supposed to be in an honest relationship. He knows he did something bad that's why he keeps apologizing   I just feel so upset about this I trusted him and even if they didnt do anything there's just this feeling I can't get rid of   I'm not tryna b a whiney bitch lol I just feel so upset

Quoting babymama0324:" He wasn't happy but we r supposed to be in an honest relationship. He knows he did something bad that's ... [snip!] ... they didnt do anything there's just this feeling I can't get rid of   I'm not tryna b a whiney bitch lol I just feel so upset"

How did he do something bad? He didn't cheat on you with her. If I invited an old guy friend over to watch a movie, and he tried to tell me that I "did something bad" I'd kick his ass. He can't tell me who I can and can't have as friends and which of those friends I choose to hang out with.

Quoting babymama0324:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ms.Eagles:</b>" This. Honestly, it doesn't sound like that ... [snip!] ... on between them."</blockquote> It is a big deal if ur telling me ur at our house asleep. And I had no clue of this."

 

Quoting Ms.Eagles:" How did he do something bad? He didn't cheat on you with her. If I invited an old guy friend over to ... [snip!] ... I'd kick his ass. He can't tell me who I can and can't have as friends and which of those friends I choose to hang out with."

He did something bad by clearly lying about it.

I wouldn't trust either one of them that 'nothing happened' either.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" He did something bad by clearly lying about it. I wouldn't trust either one of them that 'nothing happened' either."

The only thing I can see that he lied about was getting the text saying, "text if you can't sleep". He didn't lie saying where he was or what he was doing the other night. So he had her over to their house...big deal. They're old friends. How do you know the text wasn't sent to multiple people and she was hoping for a reply from anyone? She could have been bored and just wanted to pass the time. Nowhere in the OP does it say he cheated, and by assuming the worst, they're going to have problems in their relationship. Ya, he should have told her who was texting in the middle of the night...but if he wasn't planning on continuing with a conversation with her, he doesn't need to tell her. I think OP pretending to be him is far worse than him not telling her who was texting.

Quoting Ms.Eagles:" The only thing I can see that he lied about was getting the text saying, "text if you can't sleep". ... [snip!] ... with her, he doesn't need to tell her. I think OP pretending to be him is far worse than him not telling her who was texting."

? on the first page she said this: It is a big deal if ur telling me ur at our house asleep. And I had no clue of this.

So yea, he lied saying he was sleeping. If it isn't a big deal he could have just said he was hanging out with her  

Quoting £egendary £ex:" ? on the first page she said this: It is a big deal if ur telling me ur at our house asleep. And I ... [snip!] ... of this. So yea, he lied saying he was sleeping. If it isn't a big deal he could have just said he was hanging out with her  "

Oh, I missed that part somehow...ya, he shouldn't have lied about being at home asleep.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" ? on the first page she said this: It is a big deal if ur telling me ur at our house asleep. And I ... [snip!] ... of this. So yea, he lied saying he was sleeping. If it isn't a big deal he could have just said he was hanging out with her  "</blockquote>

Thank you! Glad u see where I'm coming from. I just don't think it's ok for my man to be hanging out with another girl! He wouldn't want me hanging out with another guy