Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" yea. Does it just take time to build muscle up there? I don't even know how to flex that area.... It doesn't flex with a kegel like the rest of my vagina does. Ehhh this is embarrassing."
don't be embarrassed. I just told someone in another post about how i had to have a blood clot cut out of a hemorrhoid when I was pregnant.
It really sounds like your uterus or bladder has "prolapsed"..which mean it has fallen a little. It's common after having a baby....but I'm not a doctor so you really gotta see one! I'm sorry!