Quoting Alyssa's mommy [EBFT]:" Haha I was the opposite. I mean we had sex right up until the day I had her, but afterwards I felt even so much closer to him that I just had to physically have him if that makes sense? "
Makes sense to me. I felt like a completely different person. She said I had a superficial tear that was pretty much just a scratch and my epidural was so intense I never felt the delivery so I don't have that "Labor was so rough, I can't think about sex again" experience I have heard a lot of moms report. I think as long as you use condoms it lowers the risk, but it doesn't go away. I think it's just we've been so stressed, not sleeping, then Zan was in the hospital for his jaundice, come home, more not sleeping, and somehow it's brought us closer.