I need advice, asap.

posted 14th Dec
I just left an unsafe relationship.
I had to erase everything, change my number.. etc.
This isn't my real babygaga account either.. because he knows my other one so I don't want to post using that one. I know he reads it.
but I left for a lot of reasons.
I'm 31 weeks pregnant, by my oldest childs father.
ex & I were not together for long.
He kept threatening me, my family.. calling all of us names.
Emotional abuse/metal abuse that I know would turn physical.
I left as soon as I could.

I've already called the police on him twice, but he will not leave me alone still.
It's been over a week now and I can't get him to stop.
He stalks my house, my moms and all my familys to see where I am at.
I don't feel safe being alone.
I stayed with my mom a few days and now I'm back at home.. I know I can't hide forever and I can't afford to move, section 8 housing reasons.
He keeps saying I'm lucky I'm pregnant, things like that.

He had it to the point where I couldn't speak to my kids dad.. and I was scared to tell him I needed help getting out of this relationship.
He put apps on my phone sending all my text/calls to his phone (I didn't know he did this until I went to change my number )
He always checked my computer to see what I was doing..
Came into my work.
Constantly called me.

Just an idea of how things were going.

but I don't know what else to do.
The police won't do anything to him.
They said he hasn't physically harmed me.
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I live in Japan
posted 14th Dec
restraining order.
ASAP
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I'm due January 21st, have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in North Carolina
posted 14th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting OhioLady:</b>" I just left an unsafe relationship. I had to erase everything, change my number.. etc. This isn't my ... [snip!] ... were going. but I don't know what else to do. The police won't do anything to him. They said he hasn't physically harmed me."</blockquote>




Restraining order and tell your boss to ban him from the premises. That way if e comes by your work you can have him arrested or at least escorted out.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 14th Dec
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting OhioLady:</b>" I just left an unsafe relationship. I had to ... [snip!] ... your boss to ban him from the premises. That way if e comes by your work you can have him arrested or at least escorted out."

My boss won't do that unless he has a cause.
I already spoke with him about it, he doesn't think he will come bug me at work.. but he comes in and "buys" something so he gets away with it.
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I live in Japan
posted 14th Dec
Quoting OhioLady:" My boss won't do that unless he has a cause. I already spoke with him about it, he doesn't think he will come bug me at work.. but he comes in and "buys" something so he gets away with it."

Well a restraining order would be a cause.
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I have 2 kids & live in Alpharetta, Georgia
posted 14th Dec
I would look into a restraining order.

Good for you for leaving and hopefully things get better and he leaves you alone soon.
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I'm due September 19th (a boy), have 3 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Arkansas
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