23dpo no AF BFN!!

Urgh.... So I'm frustrated. I haven't made it official that we were TTC but we kinda have been for about a year. Now we've separated (for the time being, TTC is hard  ) we stopped and decided to get on the iud and about amonyh later changed out minds. So my last AF was nov. 4th so now AF is 10 days late with no sign of return so far. I have had mild cramping and some nausea (he is very nauseous constantly) dizzy spells, headaches, backaches, some diarrhea, odd cravings, tender/darkened/larger nipples and a BFN! I just don't feel myself and with the BFN Im feeling sad and unsure of it all :/ any advice??

I am 17 days late, no AF and BFNs. It is really frustrating.

get a blood test. most doctors will do them once you're 2 weeks late.
I never tested positive on a pee test with my oldest son. I didn't find out until i was 8 weeks along at the hospital.

<blockquote><b>Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:</b>" I am 17 days late, no AF and BFNs. It is really frustrating."</blockquote>




I feel like people who aren't TTC get pregnant so easy! When I wasn't there came my son! Now it's like "hey get your hopes up *bang* right back down"  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom to M&J:</b>" get a blood test. most doctors will do them once you're 2 weeks late. I never tested positive on a pee test with my oldest son. I didn't find out until i was 8 weeks along at the hospital. "</blockquote>




I'll try to make an appt! Hopefully they won't just send me to urgent care. :/ it takes weeks to get in I think I'm gonna do another PT and see if there's any change the last one was about 5 days ago :/ with my son I had a BFP 2 days w/o AF

Quoting mama.ash:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom to M&J:</b>" get a blood test. most doctors will do them ... [snip!] ... gonna do another PT and see if there's any change the last one was about 5 days ago :/ with my son I had a BFP 2 days w/o AF"

they should just put in for the blood work at the lab, which here the lab is a walk-in.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jen K.:</b>" they should just put in for the blood work at the lab, which here the lab is a walk-in."</blockquote>




Here all of the bloodwork has to be by drs orders :/ I wish there was a walk in deal here!

Im 18 DPO I've had 6 negative hpts, and a negative blood test and still no AF, she should have arrived on the tenth!  

Quoting mama.ash:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jen K.:</b>" they should just put in for the blood work at the ... [snip!] ... a walk-in."</blockquote> Here all of the bloodwork has to be by drs orders :/ I wish there was a walk in deal here!"

No, I meant the doctor put in the lab for the blood-work, I call my doctors office and they put it in... then I go to the lab at my convenience.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jen K.:</b>" No, I meant the doctor put in the lab for the blood-work, I call my doctors office and they put it in... then I go to the lab at my convenience."</blockquote>




Hmm I wonder if they'll do that here. I'll try   thank you

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tanya-Michelle 'Wench' Mo:</b>" Im 18 DPO I've had 6 negative hpts, and a negative blood test and still no AF, she should have arrived on the tenth!  "</blockquote>




Harder than we thought huh  

Quoting mama.ash:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jen K.:</b>" No, I meant the doctor put in the lab for the blood-work, ... [snip!] ... then I go to the lab at my convenience."</blockquote> Hmm I wonder if they'll do that here. I'll try   thank you"

glad to help  

<blockquote><b>Quoting mama.ash:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tanya-Michelle 'Wench' Mo:</b>" Im 18 DPO I've had 6 negative ... [snip!] ... blood test and still no AF, she should have arrived on the tenth!  "</blockquote> Harder than we thought huh  "</blockquote>



Yeah! Before I had DS I got pregnant the first time every time, this time round its taken me 10+ months and im still not pregnant  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tanya-Michelle 'Wench' Mo:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting mama.ash:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tanya-Michelle ... [snip!] ... Before I had DS I got pregnant the first time every time, this time round its taken me 10+ months and im still not pregnant  "</blockquote>




0.0 oh em gee. It's been about the same for me :/

So I took a clear blue digital ept with FMU and a generic 88cent one and both BFN! my symptoms are getting worse but I would think that if Im getting these symptoms there has to be some HCG in my system if I am   I'm getting more and more discouraged I know I need to make an appt soon. Now I'm just wishing AF would come   I wanna cry :/