Quoting DifferentDay:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Fantastic 4:</b>" wow thats very harsh of her. I hope things ... [snip!] ... it's like anything else a counselor may not be a good fit so shop around. Ask for referrals from friends family coworkers etc."
I dont think its the engagement. From my side I feel like in the past 4 years not much as changed. I do everything. I cook, clean, take care of a 2 yr old and a 4 yr old. I also work at home over night most nights. He works 8 hours a day and comes home acting entitled. He wants to nap and do what ever he wants. He has a headache every days too. I dont have no time for anything. Its taken him 4 years to become a better father since our daughter was born but he still calls me over to change a pamper or bath the kids. Its like so old already. We lost US and Im just a parent/maid and he works. We dont go out on dates, go out with friends, we do nothing as a couple.
Last friday is what really the straw the broke the camels back for me. He was too tired to decorate the christmas tree with us. every year for the past 4 years its something. We have yet to decorate the tree as a family. Im disappointed and I realized maybe things will never change.