re: Not sure if I should abort pregnancy, Husband left me, need

<blockquote><b>Quoting £egendary £ex:</b>" Wow, I'm sorry   He sounds like an smurf. I would probably consider abortion, idk... being a single mom to 3 is hard enough I'm sure"</blockquote>


 

Just wanted to offer hugs and hope you make the right choice for you and your family.

*hugs*

I understand how hard your situation is, and cannot imagine going through it alone. I do not think you should get an abortion, since your anti-abortion. This is one thing that you cannot take back. If you did go through with this, imagine the guilt you will have to live with. If you don't want to keep your baby, why not adoption? I know people who wish to adopt, including myself. I pray you make the right decision! *hugs*

Quoting ~*My heart is complete*~:" If you think you will regret it don't go thru with it. That's one thing you can't take back. You can raise your kids and when you go thru with your divorce you will get child support."

This! I couldnt agree more...I've fouind myself with this very decision when I had 2 and was pregnant with my 3rd. I choose to keep it and I'm happy I did. Things worked out. I'm happy with my decision. Follow your heart, I also like the pro/cons list. Good luck to you

why not adoption? just wondering.. all medical and everything else is paid for going that route and u will be giving another family something they have always eanted   GL mama and sorry to hear about ur hubby thats a crappy situation..

Quoting Baby peaches mama:" why not adoption? just wondering.. all medical and everything else is paid for going that route and u ... [snip!] ... giving another family something they have always eanted   GL mama and sorry to hear about ur hubby thats a crappy situation.."

Because this is in AS.

Quoting Not tellin:" Because this is in AS."

:/ no need to be mean i was just woundering.. anyways OP i wish you the best honey and dont pay any mind to any rude comments just do what is best for you mama!

Quoting Baby peaches mama:" :/ no need to be mean i was just woundering.. anyways OP i wish you the best honey and dont pay any mind to any rude comments just do what is best for you mama!"

How was that mean? And this is AS (protected forum).

Quoting Not tellin:" How was that mean? And this is AS (protected forum)."

yes i understand that i wasnt telling her not to abort im not against them i forgot the word for what i am im not pro choice or pro life... like i believe some reasons are ok to abort .. idk anyways its up to her completely !! im not attacking or anything like that but she also said "not sure i should abort pregnancy" so just letting it be known she has options! i know this feeling well and us woman dont think right in this situation  

Quoting Baby peaches mama:" yes i understand that i wasnt telling her not to abort im not against them i forgot the word for what ... [snip!] ... so just letting it be known she has options! i know this feeling well and us woman dont think right in this situation  "

  I am sure she is aware or she wouldn't have come here

Quoting Not tellin:"   I am sure she is aware or she wouldn't have come here"

yea, do people really think the OP has no idea that adoption exists? lol

Quoting £egendary £ex:" yea, do people really think the OP has no idea that adoption exists? lol"

i guess so

If I was you I would make a list of pros and cons of having this child. Like can you afford to add another child, if you can will you be able to take the time off that you need to have this child, just stuff like that and then make your decision based on those lists.

Quoting CherryStars:" So, im 7 weeks pregnant. I have 3 children. This was unexpected. I am so against abortion but i dont ... [snip!] ... we wont be together. any advice, should i go through with it, i just dont want any regrets and i dont know how i would feel. "

Having had an abortion, I can tell you that not a day goes by I don't think about the baby I could have had and would have in my arms. I only aborted because I was raped by a family member and didn't want to a) have to explain to the child, or b) have genetic disorders.

No one can tell you what the right thing to do is. I can tell you that the grief takes a very long time. I still deal with it and it was a year and a half ago. Personally, if I was in your shoes, I wouldn't abort. But it is your decision, and I pray you find comfort in whatever decision you make.

After having had 2 abortions, I must say that I don't think about them at all they were the perfect decisions for the time that they happened.... Ô dont regret either one....