Quoting Conservative MAMA:" If your DH/SO called you at 800 and said that he was leaving work in 15 minutes (meaning he would be ... [snip!] ... he put me on the spot and didnt even bother to ask nor consider anyone else. Should I be pissed at him? How would you feel?"
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" I'd let the man go to the Christmas party... I mean I'd be upset he didn't tell me sooner, but if it was spur of the moment I'd understand."
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" I'd be upset that he didn't let me know ... [snip!] ... earlier, so I wasn't waiting around for him."</blockquote> This. Or even just a quick phone call when plans changed."