Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Honestly, I would be upset about the visitation aspect as well. She is encouraging a relationship between ... [snip!] ... child. I'm with your DH on the CS thing....cancelling it would be stupid and the only person that would suffer is the child."
Oh he has! He's offered to spend every weekend seeing him for several hours. (he works 12 hour shifts during the week so it's impossible for us to see him then) Just because he can't stay the night yet doesn't mean we don't still want to see him when we can. Like I said, she wanted things done a certain way and she's pissed that that isn't happening even though we told her about our living situation before they even moved back to Ohio!
And I can understand her not being thrilled about it, but I'm pissed that she's using it as a reason to say she's going to keep his son from him now. She's punishing their son because she's mad at us and I don't think that's right.