I could seriously just die...

I found a bunch of old pictures, including some slightly provocative ones from when I was younger and before DH and I got together. I had asked DH out in high school and he told me know. We didn't have a serious relationship until after I had DD. I showed him the pictures and he shook his head and said "I could have had that."

I knew he meant it as a compliment, but now I feel like me now isn't good enough and I need to look like 18 year old me again. And that will never happen without some plastic surgery and major weight loss. I feel like crap now. And I feel selfish because I can't wait for this baby to come so I can start losing weight again. It's consuming me to the point of being unhealthy.  

To me it sounds more like he's kicking himself for not getting with your sooner.

Aw. He loves you and that's probably not what he meant at all. Maybe he just regrets the fact that you guys spent unnecessary years apart when you could've started in high school

I feel you there! Before i found out i was pregnant i had started new excercises and had lost 10 pounds. Then its like...you cant keep doing that, you have to gain not lose! But at least we only have 7 weeks left mama!  

Quoting A&J. ♥:" Aw. He loves you and that's probably not what he meant at all. Maybe he just regrets the fact that you guys spent unnecessary years apart when you could've started in high school"

That's the really annoying part. He's always saying that if we dated in high school that we probably wouldn't be together now.  

Quoting Commander Shepard:" That's the really annoying part. He's always saying that if we dated in high school that we probably wouldn't be together now.  "

You probably wouldn't. Teenage relationships and adult relationships are completely different emotional rollercoasters. I'd say be happy that you guys did get together when you did, because it's obviously working now.  

As for the pictures, I doubt he meant it like that. And even if he did, he probably meant he could have had that back THEN. Ya know?