Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" I'm bi polar and am capaple of taking care of my kids my ex tried to use that against me and it u would ... [snip!] ... would be a dick move... get visitation u don't even know there living situation she could just be crazy, and be a good mom..."
well neither of us are saying shes a bad mom, and we wouldnt use the bi-polar as saying she is. And of course we would not try for full custody right off the bat, and we know about the back child support which is why we are waiting untill we are financially stable and have a steady income that is doing more for us then just getting us by.
i would see a unfit mother as someone who is relying on other people to support her child without even trying to support the child herself (as being grandparents of the child or others, and her not going to scool or not working, or working and spending all her money on meaningless stuff ex: nails, hair, stuff for herself that is not needed, and nothing for her child) and having men in and out of her child life, living in a dirty environment.
i do not know this woman so idk if this is the kind of environment that she is in but that is what i would see an unfit mother as.