How bad is an abortion you don't want?

I'm just wondering how bad having an abortion would be for a wanted pregnancy? You see I'm 13 Andy parents don't want me to have it and I don't want adoption so I'm left with this decision. Plus I don't want to get my bf in trouble if I decided to have it. Advice?

Honestly, your parents don't legally have much say in the matter. You are a minor, yes, but it is still your body and your decision.

I imagine it would be quite terrible.

Quoting Youngteenmom12:" I'm just wondering how bad having an abortion would be for a wanted pregnancy? You see I'm 13 Andy parents ... [snip!] ... don't want adoption so I'm left with this decision. Plus I don't want to get my bf in trouble if I decided to have it. Advice?"

You posted the same thing last night. Go look at the comments.

Good luck.

I don't think any decision you will make will be easy in anyway. Good luck with your descion.

Why would your bf be in trouble? How old is he? Do what you think is best. Why don't you want adoption? It would probably be the most reasonable option if you aren't emotionally ready for an abortion.

Terrible. Dont do it for someone else.

Well...considering its something you don't want to do..but im assuming you're going to go through with it anyways, id suggest looking into counseling for after.

No I asked how hard teen parenting was not about how after abortion feelings are if it was unwanted that's what I'm curious about because I feel like idk how I'm going to cope with it

I dont understand. You dont want to put the baby up for adoption so that leads you to abortion? I'm pro choice in the sense that everyone can make their on decisions but if you are going to abort why not adopt. You could make someones dream come true.

<blockquote><b>Quoting PurpleBama582:</b>" Honestly, your parents don't legally have much say in the matter. You are a minor, yes, but it is still your body and your decision."</blockquote>



Yes. but they can choose to not support her baby. she has no way to provide for it. they can easily call cps & get the child taken away.

Quoting PurpleBama582:" Honestly, your parents don't legally have much say in the matter. You are a minor, yes, but it is still your body and your decision."

Are you kidding me? She's 13. It's NOT her body, her choice.

Hunny, at 13, do you really want a baby right now? Your childhood will be over.

Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" Are you kidding me? She's 13. It's NOT her body, her choice."

It's not her body? Whose body is it?