re: How bad is an abortion you don't want?

Do what you think is right, but I don't think you should bring a baby in the world while you're still a baby yourself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jessi Graffia:</b>" If you dont want an abortion then this will be the biggest regret of your life. You're still so young. ... [snip!] ... still so young. You still have so much growing to do, physically, mentally, emotionally. Abortion will be horrible for you. "</blockquote>

Um. no.

abortion would be easiest i think.

she can finish school. get on some birth control, GROW UP. establish a career..without having a kid to worry about.



Have you ever had an abortion?! abortions aren't smurfing cake walks.

Parents cannot force an ELECTIVE medical procedure on their child. In most states, it is against the law and can actually constitute child abuse.

Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" in my state parents own your reproductive rights and organs until 14 im pretty sure or 15. "

No they don't. They can deny you birth control but they cannot force you to have an abortion.

Quoting PurpleBama582:" Parents cannot force an ELECTIVE medical procedure on their child. In most states, it is against the law and can actually constitute child abuse. "

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting PurpleBama582:</b>" Parents cannot force an ELECTIVE medical procedure on their child. In most states, it is against the law and can actually constitute child abuse. "</blockquote>



Yes because abortions are so much worse than a kid in foster care.

eta: referring to the said embryo/fetus.

Quoting Youngteenmom12:" To me adoption isn't any easier than abortion I'd still not be able to be a family with hi Or her like I said I'm attached already its just going to get worst and prolong the inevitable."

I understand that. But I just think with abortion you will spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been, how the baby would look, what they would do with their life. With an adoption, while it will still be hard, one day you can meet that baby again. All those questions will be answered. Especially with an open adoption. While you wont be in the baby life everyday, you will still know how they are. And when they are old enough you can have a relationship.

<blockquote><b>Quoting i made a vagina.:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jessi Graffia:</b>" If you dont want an abortion then this ... [snip!] ... a career..without having a kid to worry about. Have you ever had an abortion?! abortions aren't smurfing cake walks."</blockquote>




This.

Another thing look into is are you even able carry a baby this young. You would be considered high risk and that maybe why your parents are freaking out really bad. Because all though they get a grand baby God forbid something happen to you. It wouldnt be easy excepting the fact your daughter died because her body wasnt able go through labor. And they blame themselves for not saying anything. Not saying you should get a abortion but try see it from there point of view.

Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:"   Idk why she's making like I'm acting like my kid is my slave.    MY child, MY choice. She wants to get pregnant at 13? I can tell you what's not going to happen."

Meh, I don't agree with that, but to each their own.

Quoting i made a vagina.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jessi Graffia:</b>" If you dont want an abortion then this ... [snip!] ... a career..without having a kid to worry about. Have you ever had an abortion?! abortions aren't smurfing cake walks."

I'm sorry but I dont undersytand what your saying here. You start with abortion would be the easiest option but you ended asking if I had an abortion because they are not a cakewalk. If she already doesnt want an abortion then I think is obvious it will be really hard on her and she will regret it. I'm not auggesting she keeps it, I think adoption would be the best option.

Quoting bbbt:" You do not own her. That is a disgusting thing to say about your child. It sounds like you are referring to a dog. "

Oh spare me.  

Quoting Jessi Graffia:" I understand that. But I just think with abortion you will spend the rest of your life wondering what ... [snip!] ... wont be in the baby life everyday, you will still know how they are. And when they are old enough you can have a relationship."

You don't know that's how she'll be feeling!

Quoting PurpleBama582:" Parents cannot force an ELECTIVE medical procedure on their child. In most states, it is against the law and can actually constitute child abuse. "

Children also have to be a certain age to consent to procedures, no?

I don't know her name but I do know there is a girl on here who had a baby at 13 or 14 and kept it. I think she has her parent's support, though.