Questions.

I'm completely unsure about what to do with my child, I love them but I don't think I am financially or emotionally stable to raise a child at 18 but I was just wondering if any ladies who did get an abortion how do they feel about it? and do they regret it? Also, if I do decide to get an abortion will I have to leave BG?

Also, I see a place to put "angel" in your kids slot.. if I got one could I put mine their?

If I offend someone I apologize, and if this is too private of a topic to talk about openly anyone is welcome to PM me.

(Sorry, for all the questions, I'm just so confused about a lot of things..)

no you do not have to leave bg if you choose to get an abortion.. there are plenty of ladies on here who have decided on that option and are here to support you, as well as give you any advice from their experiences

If you feel that you are unable to support your child and you want an abortion than get an abortion. Do what you feel is in your best interests. If you want to put it as an angel baby you can. I've never had an abortion but I know a couple people in real life who have and they do not regret it. They know they would not have been able to provide for the child.

Quoting ×ø×K·ßear×ø×:" no you do not have to leave bg if you choose to get an abortion.. there are plenty of ladies on here ... [snip!] ... on here who have decided on that option and are here to support you, as well as give you any advice from their experiences"

Okay, thank you very much.

This is a protected forum. No one would be able to say smurf about your abortion here. As for around the site, people may give you hell for it, but I gaurantee there would be just as many women taking up your defense.

It's an incredibly hard decision to make, but if you think that you're not ready to have a baby, then it's one that I would support, personally. You want to do what's best for the children you can support down the road.

It's really taxing emotionally though...I would hope you wouldn't leave BG for that. You'd need support, honey.

I had an abortion and it was a very smart choice, I've never regretted it even in the slightest. That said, I was 100% sure that was what I wanted.

You would absolutely not have to leave BG, and you can fill out your profile info anyway you see fit. That's not for anyone but you to make the call on.

Thank you, everyone.

Talking to you all seems to make it less hard.

You won't have to leave BG for it. This isn't just a place for women with kids.

Getting an abortion isn't an easy decision but if you feel it is best then do it. I had one at 17 for similar reasons. I didn't have a job, was about to start college, and really didnt want to give up my life for a child at that time. I have no regrets about it. Only you can decide what is best for you and where you are in your life right now. I wish you the best with whatever you decide.

And I decided not to include my "angel" baby on my profile. It is up to you whether or not you would want to put that info on there.

Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" You won't have to leave BG for it. This isn't just a place for women with kids. Getting an abortion ... [snip!] ... you can decide what is best for you and where you are in your life right now. I wish you the best with whatever you decide."

Thank you.  

Has your boyfriend talked to you yet?
If this is what you really want to do its your body your choise.

Quoting Y+I=KENDRA:" Has your boyfriend talked to you yet? If this is what you really want to do its your body your choise."

I told him today that I was pregnant he told me to "get out" it's in my other posts.  

I had an abortion in 2009 at 8 weeks 5 days. No regrets. but I had absolutely no doubts going in.
As others have said, no you don't have to leave BG if you terminate your pregnancy lol. Plenty of momma's on here have aborted, have no kids because they are TTC, or have lost their child/children.
Whether or not you list your termination on your profile as a angel baby is entirely up to you.
Keeping you in my thoughts.

Quoting Two Princesses:" I had an abortion in 2009 at 8 weeks 5 days. No regrets. but I had absolutely no doubts going in. As ... [snip!] ... Whether or not you list your termination on your profile as a angel baby is entirely up to you. Keeping you in my thoughts."

There are also plenty of women on here who have had abortions in the past that are now TTC or have children. They can help you deal with the emotions that come from voiding a pregnancy and then dealing with later pregnancies. This website really is the best place for you OP.

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" There are also plenty of women on here who have had abortions in the past that are now TTC or have children. ... [snip!] ... that come from voiding a pregnancy and then dealing with later pregnancies. This website really is the best place for you OP."

Agree completely with this.

hi Britteny,
ive read all your posts, good job on telling him.
no one on here is going to judge you if you do choose to get an abortion. but i have a question for you after reading all your posts... have you considered adoption? in all your posts you only bring up keeping him/her or aborting..

they do have "open" adoptions where you can still be in the babys life but not have to actually pay for him/her. i dont know much about it since i did choose to parent my son (i had him when i was 1  but im sure there are mommies on here that can tell you more about it.