I told him.

Make sure to read my story: http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2401752.html

After you read that you'll understand. This post is really just venting.

So, after hearing some ladies opinions and amazing advice I decided it was in fact time to let my boyfriend know I am pregnant. I sat him down and told me that the reason I had been acting so strange was because I was 8 weeks pregnant. He then asked me to leave and I did. We have been not-so-good for a few months, so the thought of talking to this boy again is upsetting and now I'm faced with the obstacle of raising a child with him..

"I don't know what I'm suppose to do" doesn't even cover how I feel right now.

Let him digest it for a few days, and don't try to push conversation. Let him contact you first. Good on you for telling him, though.

Quoting PurpleBama582:" Let him digest it for a few days, and don't try to push conversation. Let him contact you first. Good on you for telling him, though. "

I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my chest.
I'm just disgusted at the fact he can react this way, it's his child and he doesn't want it in the slightest.

It's probably a bit of a shock to him. He just found out that you're having a baby and it'll take some time to sink in. There are two possible outcomes and both involve you growing a tiny person and loving them unconditionally. I know it'll be hard if he isn't there for you but you just have to believe that everything will work out for the best  

Quoting BrittanyGee[2.0]:" I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my chest. I'm just disgusted at the fact he can react this way, it's his child and he doesn't want it in the slightest."

Was the pregnancy planned?
Were you using protection?

You can be disgusted all you want, but he is entitled to his feelings and opinion.

Quoting BrittanyGee[2.0]:" I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my chest. I'm just disgusted at the fact he can react this way, it's his child and he doesn't want it in the slightest."

It's a lot for a guy to take in. It's hard to imagine that he would react that way, especially if you're happy about it. Just know that whatever HE decides to do, YOU are strong enough to handle motherhood with or without him. When I had to tell my second husband I was pregnant(we weren't married yet) his reaction was "I need a BIG drink" and it took him a couple of weeks to get used to the idea.

Quoting Bettinas:" It's probably a bit of a shock to him. He just found out that you're having a baby and it'll take some ... [snip!] ... I know it'll be hard if he isn't there for you but you just have to believe that everything will work out for the best  "

Yes, I hope it will..

Everyone handles big news differently. Give him his space to digest the information.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Was the pregnancy planned? Were you using protection? You can be disgusted all you want, but he is entitled to his feelings and opinion."

No, it was not. We were using birthcontrol but I was taking antibiotics.

Go to the link I posted. It will make a lot more sense.

i was 16 wen i had my son , my sons now almost 3 and his father really doesnt try at all to see him. its smurffy to deal with but its do able. maybe he will grow up at some point and be a man if not oh well. its his loss. you will be just fine and your baby will be just fine without him.

I agree, give him time to digest the news. Be prepared for him to not want to be involved in his child's life but hope for the best.  

Don't let him keep you from doing what you feel you need to do.

Let it sink in while you decide what you would like to do. It's your body, and therefore your choice. Just don't forget that.
Raising a child without the support of the father is certainly no easy task, but I've been doing it from the time my now two year old was two months old until my wonderful fiance came into my life.
Where there is a will there is a way.
Whatever you decide and whatever ends up happening, I am here for you if you need support.

Give it some time he is only 19 so that is alot to take in. He prolly shocked and wondering how he going be able do all this, babies cost alot and need alot things. A 19 guy isnt thinking about babies and being a dad so it was prolly the farest thing from his mind. Hope everything works out for you and wish you best.

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Was the pregnancy planned? Were you using protection? You can be disgusted all you want, but he is entitled to his feelings and opinion."