re: January mommies (sex question)

Quoting Melissa Caruso:" Meh, I'd just do it myself if sex hurts too bad! lol"

hehehe!! good for you girl... I have to...lol... get rid of the frustration!!   xx

Quoting Bella Alize's mommy!:" im 34 weeks now and I mean obviously I know it hard having sex with a belly BUT...this has been happening ... [snip!] ... want it at all! and with this one I NO JOKE want it all the time! but now it't really hurting is this normal? ANY of it? lol"

I am 34 weeks also and I want it all the time also! I know how you feel it happens. I have had it hurt to where I had to stop. Sometimes it's the muscles and tendons in my stomach that hurt so bad I have to stop. Just try a different position, it usually helps!

I'm 37 weeks today and I really don't get how preggo ladies can really enjoy sex once you get to a certain size! I have to admit, spooning position for me has always been a bit awkward, I guess we have to perfect the angle of entry or something..even so, it's certainly not a position that gets it done for me   we haven't tried me on top, and I'm guessing doggy-style would probably be most comfortable. My body at this point just gets so sore from ANY activity, so I'm fine to hold off till after the baby and take care of business myself if I really need to (although even "alone time" is a bit physically taxing, had to revise how I do it! lol) I just worry that my hubby is neglected, he hasn't said so and I don't know how to bring it up   I do miss his body (and doing things to it!) but it's just not a sexy experience between the sheets right now! can't wait to slim down so I can bring my 'A' game again hehe

I'm 35weeks and me personally the only position I can do is spooning as the big belly always gets in the way even if I'm on top but unfortunately it never gets me fully "off" so we just have lots of oral.. Can't wait to lose the weight!

so I am 37 weeks, and since about 20 weeks, everytime we try it burns extremely bad, and now it hurts my stomach as well. I don't know if this is normal but its the only time anything burns is when we try

I am 35 weeks now but sex has been hurting even in early pregnancy. I guess it's all the body changes but it really sucks. I LOVE when my legs are over his shoulders but now I can NOT be in that position...it hurts sooo bad! If my lower half is anywhere lifted in the air, it kills me. I have to have my lower half down. On top does not hurt but then I can't breathe. Pregnant sex is a hassle lol

My days of pregnancy and labor are behind me a long time ago but you should all know that having intercourse causes uterine contractions which, in the last weeks of pregnancy may feel like the baby balling up. It is normal and can be quite uncomfortable. You have to decide for yourself if it is worth the discomfort as long as you have not had complications that the DR has said to abstain for. Congratulations to all you wonderful women. My first grandchild is coming soon too.  

Gabriella - it burned for me at a certain point in pregnancy too...I think it could be the change in PH levels in the vagina, I also thought maybe it was because I hadn't had anything up there in a while so i was extra tight and sensitive. It sure felt unpleasant though, a burning like you describe. it was probably around less than 20 weeks along....it doesn't burn now that i'm 37 weeks but last time we "did it" wasn't exactly fun for me either, i'm just too big and sore in my back and pelvic joints now!

laying on your side ,partner behind you seems to be the best position i found . but if its not positioning , i wouldnt advise continuing you may just need pelvic rest or just clitoral stimulation

yea I am 38 weeks now so I'm not even going to try anymore until after I heal from delivery lol

Quoting Gabriella.H:" yea I am 38 weeks now so I'm not even going to try anymore until after I heal from delivery lol"

yeah seriously....I'm not even gonna try solo anymore its too damn awkward! at this point i'm not even horny at all, just stressing over when i'm gonna go into labor! I have to give props to people that are doing it at 40 weeks cause they think it will get labor started...I'll just try walking tyvm ;)

Quoting Snurrie:" yeah seriously....I'm not even gonna try solo anymore its too damn awkward! at this point i'm not even ... [snip!] ... give props to people that are doing it at 40 weeks cause they think it will get labor started...I'll just try walking tyvm ;)"

yea exactly i feel the same way, I'm hoping I have him soon though cause I'm pretty much miserable all the time now lol