re: No judgement.

I went through the same thing. My boyfriend was 20 I was 18. Got pregnant, he pushed abortion I didn't want that.. and it was really hard to not want to get it done but then I told my mom. She was nothing but supportive..so my mind quickly changed. Now my daughters almost 2 in January and me and her dad have been together since she was 3 months. If you want this pregnancy, whether or not he's in the picture..you can do it. Good luck!

Hello, everyone I must of typed or not payed attention to my old account but this is a new one, I made sure to write down this time.

i've had 2 abortions both times i wanted the baby but my husband didnt. TBH though i didnt do it for him i did it for our children. he was threatening to leave and i didnt want to put them through divorce and custody etc  

it was hard but i hope to get over it and he has promised me a baby when the time is right

first thing you need to do is tell him though! and have a talk about it...

good luck xx

i was also in the same situation. although, we werent officially together. i got pregnant at 18 (he was also 1 , and i wanted to keep my baby. i was single throughout my pregnancy, and for the first year and a half of my sons life and honestly, i wouldnt have it any other way. if you want to keep your baby, he cant stop you. it wasnt just you who should have been protected, but theres things he could have done aswell. Although, smurff happens, to say the least lol. just do what you feel is best for you and your child (whether its keeping it or not). just try talking to him. tell him, hope for the best, but keeping it a secret isnt going to help the situation any.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" Hello, I'm Brittany before I begin my story I'd like to ask for no judgement. I stumbled across this ... [snip!] ... I feel very alone and stuck, I'd appreciate anyone's opinion especially if they've been through anything similar, thank you."

My best advice is to leave the boyfriend who clearly doesn't care enough about you. Have had an abortion, I can tell you, especially for a wanted baby, it is heart wrenching. I got pregnant with my son at 18. I went on to be a single mother until earlier this year when I met my now husband. We are now expecting baby #2. I can tell you it's NOT easy, but it is VERY WORTH IT! He is my pride and joy. And the smurf that is his biological father tried to talk me into abortion. It took a long time for me to realize that I am worth more than that... and so are you. I wish you luck in whatever decision you make. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk.