re: No judgement.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" Thank you, everyone. Originally, I wanted this baby but being around all this negativity is making ... [snip!] ... I'm very confused, emotional, and hormonal. I apologize if my reasoning isn't making sense I just don't know how to feel."

Who cares what everyone thinks. Make the right decision for YOU and your baby. You are young. If you feel that you do not want to parent, there is adoption and of course abortion. Do what feels right to you! It's your body, therefore your choice.

You HAVE to be upfront and honest. This is not only changing your life, but his. Whether he is ready to accept responsibility or not... he needs to know. The sooner it sinks in, the more chance he has to either get ready and responsible, or make whatever decision he's going to make.

Good luck.

Yes, I posted it under here for women who might of had an abortion to comment on it and I also didn't want anyone to judge me for being so young and naive.

Thank you, ladies. I don't know how long I'll be on this site and I don't know if this is too personal to post on here but I appreciate it.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" Thank you, everyone. Originally, I wanted this baby but being around all this negativity is making ... [snip!] ... I'm very confused, emotional, and hormonal. I apologize if my reasoning isn't making sense I just don't know how to feel."

If abortion is not your choice, then it is simply not your choice.
It's not for every woman.

You will make whatever choice is right for you! That's the in and out of it.
When it's all said and done, whatever you chose was, in your heart the best choice.

You need to tell your boyfriend so that you can both make be adults and confront a conclusion that's comfortable for you both. If he's not feeling it. Then you have to decide individually what to do. Don't let other's decide for you.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" Thank you, everyone. Originally, I wanted this baby but being around all this negativity is making ... [snip!] ... I'm very confused, emotional, and hormonal. I apologize if my reasoning isn't making sense I just don't know how to feel."

I'm pro-choice - do what you need to do, I just got the feeling from your first post that abortion wasn't in the cards for you. Either way, you should probably talk to your parents and try to find some emotional support and figure things out.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" Yes, I posted it under here for women who might of had an abortion to comment on it and I also didn't ... [snip!] ... I don't know how long I'll be on this site and I don't know if this is too personal to post on here but I appreciate it."

never too personal a question on here.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" Yes, I posted it under here for women who might of had an abortion to comment on it and I also didn't ... [snip!] ... I don't know how long I'll be on this site and I don't know if this is too personal to post on here but I appreciate it."

Many women on this site have had children young. I had my first at 17. It was SUPER hard. Like... REALLY REALLY hard. I'm 35 now, and it's still hard. Make the best decision for your baby. If he leaves, will you be able to fully support your baby while giving it the attention and items it needs? If not... will the baby suffer because of it?

Make sure to weigh all the pros and cons. You'll ultimately make the best decision for you and your family.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I'm pro-choice - do what you need to do, I just got the feeling from your first post that abortion wasn't ... [snip!] ... for you. Either way, you should probably talk to your parents and try to find some emotional support and figure things out. "

I'd honestly never thought it was the choice for me either.. until it's me in the situation.

I don't want to make a hasty decision and regret it for the rest of my life.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" Yes, I posted it under here for women who might of had an abortion to comment on it and I also didn't ... [snip!] ... I don't know how long I'll be on this site and I don't know if this is too personal to post on here but I appreciate it."

I know it's hard but you need to stop being afraid that people will judge you. That is no longer where your focus should be. Also, this site is an amazing support system, if you let it.

I'm honestly so grateful for each and everyone of your opinions I don't know if it's my hormones or what but this is the most relaxed I've felt in 8 weeks..

Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Many women on this site have had children young. I had my first at 17. It was SUPER hard. Like... ... [snip!] ... because of it? Make sure to weigh all the pros and cons. You'll ultimately make the best decision for you and your family."

I've been thinking about it so much that I haven't slept much in the last few days..

Honestly, I expected to be bashed because of it because where I come from abortion is a selfish act of murder and you're basically shunned for it.. Thank you, all of you.

Quoting BrittanyGee:" I'm honestly so grateful for each and everyone of your opinions I don't know if it's my hormones or what but this is the most relaxed I've felt in 8 weeks.."

This is a good site for that. I'm sorry you are stressed and going through this.

I agree with the other ladies that you should tell him.
My fiance really encouraged me to terminate this pregnancy until I made it clear at 11 weeks I was not doing so.
Now after seeing multiple ultrasounds and naming our little girl he couldn't be happier we decided to keep the baby.
That having been said, you can't count on that he could change his mind. The others are right that if you are going to keep it, prepare to do it alone. If he stays and has a change of heart like my fiance did, awesome. if not life goes on.
If you do decide to terminate your pregnancy, make sure it's because the choice is yours, and that it isn't forced on you by him or anyone else.
Best of luck to you in your decision.

Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" This is a good site for that. I'm sorry you are stressed and going through this."

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Quoting BrittanyGee:" I've been thinking about it so much that I haven't slept much in the last few days.. Honestly, I expected ... [snip!] ... it because where I come from abortion is a selfish act of murder and you're basically shunned for it.. Thank you, all of you."

Of course... you're actually posting in a protected forum. NO ONE is allowed to say anything negative to you in here. But the ones who respond will be supportive and try to be helpful. Once in a while you'll get one that says abortion is no good, but for the most part, we understand that it's a necessity sometimes, even if it sucks.