re: No!!!!

Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" Not necessarily. They were being told that because they had a vaginal odor. I've seen a few parents do this to girls to let them "air out" overnight."

That's true...

To be fair, OP didn't include nearly enough information for anyone to help her make a conclusion. She didn't say it was an "all the time" thing. Or anything of the sort.

So there's not much we can do but accusations and what not.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" Yeah, we are naked kinda people too. Nothing about this post says that these children are in ... [snip!] ... skin. A two year old trying to pull at his penis isn't even abuse. It's not like the two year old knows what he/she is doing."</blockquote>




This is true, the thing that got my attention was he said his butt hurt from the pole.. if I read the post right. That would raise eyebrows with me.

Quoting Alexis's Mommy 2 Be:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" Yeah, we are naked kinda people too. ... [snip!] ... that got my attention was he said his butt hurt from the pole.. if I read the post right. That would raise eyebrows with me."

I agree.

But "pole" to a 4 year old could mean anything. We call my sons penis a pickle, if he said "my butt hurts from the pickle" then we would have a problem. If op's son doesn't use pole in referance to his penis then that could really mean anything.

Quoting Hairspray:" I agree. But "pole" to a 4 year old could mean anything. We call my sons penis a pickle, if he ... [snip!] ... then we would have a problem. If op's son doesn't use pole in referance to his penis then that could really mean anything."

It could mean he is being abused but not with a penis.

Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:" It could mean he is being abused but not with a penis."

Not saying it couldn't

Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:" It could mean he is being abused but not with a penis."

Or he went down the firepole on a playground.

She needs to get him examined.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" Or he went down the firepole on a playground. She needs to get him examined."

Very true. This is definitely something only a doctor can really help with. No one can know for sure what's going on through the internet

Love how the topic title got changed to NO!!!!.. jus sayin

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" Love how the topic title got changed to NO!!!!.. jus sayin "

Just sayin what?

Quoting Hairspray:" Just sayin what?"

sounds like she doesnt want to believe its happening, or could happen i can understand though..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" I agree. But "pole" to a 4 year old could mean anything. We call my sons penis a pickle, if he ... [snip!] ... then we would have a problem. If op's son doesn't use pole in referance to his penis then that could really mean anything."</blockquote>




You are very true, no one knows for sure and unless he gets examined or what not then we wont know. We can only guess what it.could me or be.

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" sounds like she doesnt want to believe its happening, or could happen i can understand though.. "

orrrr she doesn't want someone she knows irl creeping on this so she changed the title and erased the OP?

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" sounds like she doesnt want to believe its happening, or could happen i can understand though.. "

Or she wanted advice, but didn't want her Business aired out longer than necessary to get that advice. She obviously wants to believe it, or she wouldn't have made the post.

Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" sounds like she doesnt want to believe its happening, or could happen i can understand though.. "

Or she deleted it because it's a personal matter and she doesn't want everyone in cyberland reading it.

Thanks for all of your advice, yes I didnt want to leave it up for to long it is personal. I also contacted CPS and they told me my son is only 4 and that what he had said is to "vague" for them to know if he did/or did not have something going on. They told me they would put in a report but there is really nothing they can do. I have to go to court in front of judge and let her determine what to do. obviously CPS is a freaking joke around here, and they cant do anything unless something actually happens and the children are damaged first. Great for my kids let them be ruined and than we can get help.....
But again thanks for all the responses.