What would you do

Ive been with my daughters father for almost 3 years now im almost 26 & hes almost 29 this my second baby and his first. I really dont want anymore kids i have a little boy going on 5 and our daughter is 1 month old since weve had our daughter he now wants more kids. I really dont know what to do right now i mean ive explained to that i dont want anymore kids and my rrason behind it but hes set on having more. I really dont know what to do at this point i understand why he want more kids but its like he dont understand why i don't and reason is simple i have my little girl and little boy im done....What would you do in this situation?

get on birth control, wait and see how you feel in a few years.

I'd personally tell him it's not his decision, and in the case of whether or not to have kids the person who *doesn't* want them always wins.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" get on birth control, wait and see how you feel in a few years. "</blockquote>




Oh we have had that talk also i wont be having anymore anytime soon if i do decide to give him one more. To me it seem like its harder when u have more than one kid im really still adjusting to having two.

Quoting Best of both worlds ;-):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" get on birth control, wait and see how ... [snip!] ... to give him one more. To me it seem like its harder when u have more than one kid im really still adjusting to having two."

I said I was done after my second. My third is now 4months! BUT I wasn't on birth control.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" I said I was done after my second. My third is now 4months! BUT I wasn't on birth control. "</blockquote>




What is the gap between your kids if you don't mind me asking? Also since you've had your third is it harder now that you have 3

Quoting Best of both worlds ;-):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" I said I was done after my second. My ... [snip!] ... is the gap between your kids if you don't mind me asking? Also since you've had your third is it harder now that you have 3"

22 months between the first 2 and 33 months between the second two. It definitely takes some juggling and I don't like to go out alone often with all three but in some situations its manageable!