Quoting khigh:" It sounds very controlling. I would make the suggestion to trim it, but ultimately, his beard, his choice. ... [snip!] ... beard, his choice. What if he told you that he wanted you to cut off all your hair because he didn't like the way it looked?"
Quoting veggiehugger:" Uhm, wasn't sure what forum to put this in - I just really want some opinions. lol So I try not to be ... [snip!] ... don't mean to sound superficial, I'm just not sure how to make this suggestion to him? I really don't want to be controlling. "
Quoting [JadeLee]:" SO's excuse is that he works outside sometimes, so instead of a scarf he needs his beard. I tell him ... [snip!] ... if he bleached it. He doesn't care lol. Oh well I told him No shave November was extended for me too, he didn't like that."
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Stop shaving your legs. Then tell him you thought he liked things hairy, lol."
Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" <blockquote><b>Quoting veggiehugger:</b>" HAHAHA. Oh my. But yeah, I like his ... [snip!] ... care what you think. Letting it get a little long here and there is no biggy, but I'd be upset if he left it long permenantly."Yeah, I don't mind if it gets long and he's too lazy to do it as long as I know he will eventually. lol He was just talking about letting it grow like....a mountainman. However, I guess I don't have to worry about it for too much longer since he informed me yesterday that he's been thinking about joining the military. I told him I'd support him with whatever he wants to do, but of course that puts a whole new set of worries in my mind. :/