Quoting Puff the Magic Dragon!:" I don't think your overstepping boundaries per-say. However, i do think that if you get the kids a gift ... [snip!] ... own clothes/toys/ needs at his house. She has toys/clothes/ needs at her house. If she uses toys as leverage she's ...dumb? "
That's another problem I know I could have. I doubt they'd favor my gift over anyone else's, but you never know. And not only that, but their mother already has a problem with me simply existing... even if she catches wind of daddy's girlfriend buying them gifts, she'll have a smurf fit. I've never even met the woman and she's said I need to "learn my place" has called me a slut, and I feel like me even going to the christmas eve thing at his parent's house for the kids will cause a problem.
And she is dumb... I bet she actually would do that, especially after saying she'd do everything in her power to make sure his kids hate him. : /