Quoting *Bella's Mommy*:" I think there should be a forum just for parents who have lost their infant or child, and another for ... [snip!] ... women aren't suffering either..... losing your infant unexpectedly for no reason is just a completely different loss......"
You can't compare the two, I totally agree. I have had 5 m/c and don't fully understand the grieving process of them but, we all handle things differently and I would never tell a mother that her loss was minimal compared to XYZ. I have also never burried a child and I pray that I never have to either. That is a pain I don't think any parent should ever know.
One loss isn't greater than the other in matters of the heart. There are mothers with stillborn babies, ones that lived in their arms for a few hours, ones that m/c and babies that have left to SIDS or other illnesses. This is a place for all to come together and offer support. It doesn't matter how or when you lost your child. Just that someone is there to listen and most understand.
This forum is also for those who have lost loved ones. Grief knows no limits, it doesn't discriminate and it certainly can isolate a person. This is the perfect place to vent away for any loss.