re: DH & I talked about an abortion

<blockquote><b>Quoting Leisurely Duchess:</b>" Her husband's feelings probably haven't changed, he's just putting on a front because he doesn't see any other viable option."</blockquote>



Yeah, exactly. Unless you're both on board and READY, you don't TTC. Then this issue won't come up.... And your husband won't be powerless in a corner.

Quoting Leisurely Duchess:" Her husband's feelings probably haven't changed, he's just putting on a front because he doesn't see any other viable option."

For now. But how long can he put up a front until he snaps?

Wow...

ok so...we were TTC times were a little better and we really wanted another baby.

DH lost his income, We got pregnant, had a miscarriage.

We decided that we were not going to TTC until we figured everything out.

He went with me to EVERY dr appt. I was not TTC behind his back.

We were using condoms but a few times we ran out and didnt feel like going to the store. so unprotected sex = pregnancy.

He brought up the option of abortion because regardless of the situation its still a choice. its a choice we both talked about and weighed the pros and cons. and we both agreed neither of us wanted the abortion. we both want to parent our baby.

our marriage is amazing. we have our ups and downs like EVERY couple. we fight we bicker i rant and rave on the internet about how much of an smurf he is and he tells his little gamer friends im a nagging bitch.

But we love eachother and our children.

so no in 10-12 months we wont be divorced
i might bicker about him not helping around the house (because he doesnt...ever) but that doesnt mean anything.

so thats the last thing I have to say on this.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Karma [4 weeks]:</b>" Wow... ok so...we were TTC times were a little better and we really wanted another baby. DH lost his ... [snip!] ... around the house (because he doesnt...ever) but that doesnt mean anything. so thats the last thing I have to say on this. "</blockquote>



Really? You had a miscarriage and then AFTER that posted about TTC. Soooo I don't know how much you're saying is true....

Quoting Mama Karma [4 weeks]:" Wow... ok so...we were TTC times were a little better and we really wanted another baby. DH lost his ... [snip!] ... around the house (because he doesnt...ever) but that doesnt mean anything. so thats the last thing I have to say on this. "

well the good new is you are going to have a baby and the husband is now on board.
After the baby is born you will both know it was best to have the baby.
You will find a way to pay the bills