re: Is it wrong

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Exactly why cant he just step outside to smoke."</blockquote>


Apparently for smokers it's a huge deal to smoke outside.   when SO and I lived with his parents, his dad refused to smoke outside regardless of the fact that I am pregnant.  

Quoting Amber :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Exactly why cant he just step ... [snip!] ...   when SO and I lived with his parents, his dad refused to smoke outside regardless of the fact that I am pregnant.  "

Thats just very inconsiderate, yeah lets infect everyone else with your garbage. I get it, its an addiction, a hard one to kick, but that doesnt mean you cant be considerate to others around you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Thats just very inconsiderate, yeah lets infect everyone else with your garbage. I get it, its an addiction, a hard one to kick, but that doesnt mean you cant be considerate to others around you."</blockquote>



I don't understand it either. *sigh*

Quoting Amber :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Thats just very inconsiderate, ... [snip!] ... but that doesnt mean you cant be considerate to others around you."</blockquote> I don't understand it either. *sigh*"

My ister has 4 kids and smokes in the house, and her kids always have chest colds and end up needing to be on a neb, I mean 3 of my kids have asthma so need one too, however, her smoking in the house makes it so much worse, then end up being sick way more than my kids and always have coughs.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" My ister has 4 kids and smokes in the house, and her kids always have chest colds and end up needing ... [snip!] ... however, her smoking in the house makes it so much worse, then end up being sick way more than my kids and always have coughs."</blockquote>

Yeah, I really hate when people are that inconsiderate of the people that live with them.
...it's THEIR habit, I don't understand why they can't take into consideration the lives of everyone else since they aren't the ones making the decision to smoke.

Quoting Amber :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" My ister has 4 kids and smokes ... [snip!] ... why they can't take into consideration the lives of everyone else since they aren't the ones making the decision to smoke."

Yep, but they get bent out of shape if you even ask that they move out of the room or house to do it. Its like YOURE inconviencing them...really?

Quoting Amber :]:" I think asking him to help you move the things into the attic is a good idea. Also, I'd ask him to just ... [snip!] ... to. Maybe offer to help him out. If he needs another stress reliever maybe a good Christmas present would be a gym membership?"

he bought an electric cigarette but he is still smoking regular cigarettes too :face palm:. He has a membership already too  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" he bought an electric cigarette but he is still smoking regular cigarettes too :face palm:. He has a membership already too  "</blockquote>

Maybe some workout clothes to make him motivated to use it more often? Or maybe like little coupons lol that say for every day that he goes without a cigarette he gets sex! Hahaha

Quoting Amber :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" he bought an electric cigarette but ... [snip!] ... use it more often? Or maybe like little coupons lol that say for every day that he goes without a cigarette he gets sex! Hahaha"

LMAO thats brilliant!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" LMAO thats brilliant!  "</blockquote>



Hahahaha men are so simple.  

the stuff in the garage is most likely going to have to be cleaned anyway when moved into the house

No it's not wrong at all. Your family doesn't need to be subjected to that just because "he pays rent."

Quoting bbbt:" Why can't he smoke on the porch or something? Who smokes in the garage? Kinda weird..."

Everyone here. It's cold....nasty cold & when windchills put you at 20 below - then no one stands outside for anything they don't have to.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lindsay1591:</b>" the stuff in the garage is most likely going to have to be cleaned anyway when moved into the house"</blockquote>


It's not that easy to clean things that's have been baking in cigarette smoke. It's filthy and it stinks!

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lindsay1591:</b>" the stuff in the garage is most likely going ... [snip!] ... It's not that easy to clean things that's have been baking in cigarette smoke. It's filthy and it stinks!"

Yeah and I dont feel comfortable using stuff that has been sitting in smoke for a nb even if I clean it...I'm paranoid  ...


The crib frame should be fine tho since its sealed wood...right?

That's what he told me...it wont absorb it or something and I can just clean the crap out of it.

I moved my van into the garage so its no longer his and his friend's that smoke "hang out" anymore..they make a fire in the back yard now. My van had to be moved there anyway because something is wrong with the antifreeze