re: KICKING AND SCREAMING 20

Quoting ℓise ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" I had a much better sex life with my ex. I absolutely ... [snip!] ... huge change. Even if I've had years to get used to it   "</blockquote> 3 years with ex. Not even a year with B haha."

I legit don't even remember how long I was with DSs dad for. A couple years.
Had the sex not been phenomenal, we probably wouldn't have stayed together that long.  

DH gets off at 1 today. He might be bringing our friends over. He might not.

If he doesn't, and DD is still sleeping like she should be. .I'm just gonna pounce on him. At least...theoretically.

Realistically I'm pretty sure he'll come home and tell me he's tired and that he needs a nap.  

Quoting Mayhem.:" If it helps, I'm the same way. It takes a lot of build up for me to finally bring something up. And ... [snip!] ... he seems like the discussion is stupid to him, or he doesn't understand what I'm saying, I end up crying. I'm terrible   "

Yea. If I can get myself off the couch today I'll go to the bookstore and get that book for him. Maybe it'll force a discussion.  

Quoting grace life:" Yea. If I can get myself off the couch today I'll go to the bookstore and get that book for him. Maybe it'll force a discussion.  "

That'd be great if it does!
There's one on my Amazon wishlist that I wanna get. Well, 2. Okay like 5.

Unfortunately last time I tried to start reading something or do something to spark conversation and get us working on these issues, it didn't work. Still working on him not acting like a brat  

Quoting Mayhem.:" That'd be great if it does! There's one on my Amazon wishlist that I wanna get. Well, 2. Okay like ... [snip!] ... to spark conversation and get us working on these issues, it didn't work. Still working on him not acting like a brat   "

Reading together is something DH and I enjoy doing. So, we might as well do what we know works!

Stupid BFF's Flickr won't let me post his photos in here.  

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonno_atamaniuk/8261436095/in/set-72157632218443104/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonno_atamaniuk/8262504662/in/set-72157632218443104/

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonno_atamaniuk/8262504120/in/set-72157632218443104/

Ahh I give up trying to post links. They're all on the same set of photos anyway. But those up there are a few of my favorites.

Since K&S is full of photographers, what do ya think?

Quoting grace life:" Reading together is something DH and I enjoy doing. So, we might as well do what we know works! "

That's awesome!!! Reading is a nice shared hobby. OR so I've heard lol.
We try to read together, and discuss books as we read. But as soon as I get into the book, he decides he doesn't like it anymore  

I swear we're ridiculously incompatible. I was telling him that the other day and he was like "we don't need to be compatible. We just fill eachother's holes"  

7 days till NYC   Noooo clue what we're going to do while we're there.

Pet peeve:

It is not should of.

It is should have.


 

Quoting Mayhem.:" That's awesome!!! Reading is a nice shared hobby. OR so I've heard lol. We try to read together, and ... [snip!] ... I was telling him that the other day and he was like "we don't need to be compatible. We just fill eachother's holes"   "

Chris hates reading, he just sits there and listens. Works for me.

Quoting grace life:" Chris hates reading, he just sits there and listens. Works for me. "

aw. you guys are so cute.

Quoting Mayhem.:" "

I wish you drove so that you could go shop for your own vibe.   They sell Evolved products in most sex shops.   I can't even imagine what your DH will bring home for you. Bahahahaha.

Quoting Mayhem.:" That's awesome!!! Reading is a nice shared hobby. OR so I've heard lol. We try to read together, and ... [snip!] ... I was telling him that the other day and he was like "we don't need to be compatible. We just fill eachother's holes"   "

And he's not filling your holes!   Haha

Quoting Mayhem.:" aw. you guys are so cute. "

He tolerates me   When I turn 30 I'll have already spent over half my life with him.  

Quoting grace life:" Just something I need to work through. Sex, in my opinion, is an important part of marriages. I need to be able to discuss it without getting nervous or clamming up. "

It took me a lonnnngg time too

Hint: add some alcohol to losen the lips