re: KICKING AND SCREAMING 20

Quoting Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting grace life:</b>" When we have sex, it is like red hot super ... [snip!] ... I'm kind of the one causing it I guess.   I want to read Red Hot Monogamy with him.  "</blockquote> Do it!!"

Maybe I'll buy it for him for Valentines day, along with lingerie and a bottle of wine?  

Funny thing is, I know most people would probably assume it is my faith that makes me nervous to talk about this stuff. But I actually feel very free in my sex life due to my faith, I think it's my past abuse and stuff that makes me bottle up when it comes to discussing it.

Kim K is ugly as smurf without make up

Quoting Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℓise ♥:</b>" Not me   I love my simple Lady ... [snip!] ... is very low. We think he has low testosterone but he wont go to the doctor and I dont want him on meds. So....vibrator it is  "

Haha, with DD's father, I had zero drive for sex. But with SO... god damn, I can't get enough. There have been only two nights this month, I haven't got any   Last night was his back was sore from going back to massage therapy and the other night was he passed out on me haha.

Fixed my wii. Whoop! Zumba and the shred today.

I have one that looks like a tulip  

Quoting grace life:" Maybe I'll buy it for him for Valentines day, along with lingerie and a bottle of wine?   Funny thing ... [snip!] ... in my sex life due to my faith, I think it's my past abuse and stuff that makes me bottle up when it comes to discussing it. "

That's totally understandable, IMO.

Quoting grace life:" Maybe I'll buy it for him for Valentines day, along with lingerie and a bottle of wine?   Funny thing ... [snip!] ... in my sex life due to my faith, I think it's my past abuse and stuff that makes me bottle up when it comes to discussing it. "

Yup. Dee's a freak. I knew it.

Quoting ℓise ♥:" Haha, with DD's father, I had zero drive for sex. But with SO... damn, I can't get enough. There ... [snip!] ...   Last night was his back was sore from going back to massage therapy and the other night was he passed out on me haha. "

I had a much better sex life with my ex. I absolutely hate to admit it. But our sex life was amazing.  
So this is a super huge change. Even if I've had years to get used to it  

Visit other parenting sites...and its like they're lightyears behind us on current parenting recommendations

We had to file the dispute/claim for DDs bed since we never got it but FedEx said it was delivered.
And on the off chance that my neighbors like...stole it, I don't wanna order a dildo or something    
Maybe I'll send DH to get me one. Then maybe it'll dawn on him that he should be having sex with me more often.  

Quoting Mayhem.:" That's totally understandable, IMO. "

Just something I need to work through. Sex, in my opinion, is an important part of marriages. I need to be able to discuss it without getting nervous or clamming up.

Quoting Mayhem.:" We had to file the dispute/claim for DDs bed since we never got it but FedEx said it was delivered. And ... [snip!] ...   Maybe I'll send DH to get me one. Then maybe it'll dawn on him that he should be having sex with me more often.   "

Tell him to get the flesh one...no plastic.

Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" Yup. Dee's a freak. I knew it."

I see nothing wrong with sex  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" I had a much better sex life with my ex. I absolutely hate to admit it. But our sex life was amazing.   So this is a super huge change. Even if I've had years to get used to it   "</blockquote>

3 years with ex. Not even a year with B haha.

Quoting grace life:" Just something I need to work through. Sex, in my opinion, is an important part of marriages. I need to be able to discuss it without getting nervous or clamming up. "

If it helps, I'm the same way. It takes a lot of build up for me to finally bring something up. And then if he seems like the discussion is stupid to him, or he doesn't understand what I'm saying, I end up crying. I'm terrible