Quoting Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting grace life:</b>" I'm too nervous to ask DH if I can buy one ... [snip!] ... be offended when he knows there's an issue that I've already tried addressing. Have you guys discussed the lack of sexin'?"
When we have sex, it is like red hot super sex. I don't know how appropriate that is to say, but I mean I can't complain about quality. I've just been struggling emotionally with it because of our ups and downs this past year. It takes me a lot to get in the mood. It's my fault, really. I just can't seem to pull myself out of it. We briefly mentioned it yesterday, but we dropped it pretty fast. I'm not very good about verbally discussing it, it's something I need to work on. He doesn't get onto me about it (like I hear some women say about their husbands), but it is something I know bothers him...and me, although I'm kind of the one causing it I guess.
I want to read Red Hot Monogamy with him.