Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" I would sit down and calculate the hours he is taking them against the hours in a month and go from there..."thanks, i am going to do that because he wont give me any form of chid support because he says he has them half the time and than i should be giving him money out of there family allowance
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" thanks, i am going to do that because he wont give me any form of chid support because he says he has them half the time and than i should be giving him money out of there family allowance"
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Yeah it doesn't sound like 50/50 to me but with it broken up like that, you never know. I had to do the same thing with BD."okay thank u
Quoting BetterOffSingle!:" I agree with the previos post, it almost sounds like hes getting them MORE than 50%."
Quoting Nevaeh's mommy :" it sounds like he might have them more"he only has them every second weekend but if he does have them more id like to know i want it to be fair
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" the way i am looking at it I have them MORE than he does because he doesnt pick them up till 5:30 -6:00 ... [snip!] ... really onlyl has them sat sun mondays are already his day and no it's not through the courts he wanted us to do it ourselves"
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Go to the courts or see a mediator to sort this out. If he has the children as much as he does, why should he have to pay you child support? "he doesnt pay me support and I dont want his money.. I am just wondering if it is really a 50/50 custody situation is all
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" he doesnt pay me support and I dont want his money.. I am just wondering if it is really a 50/50 custody situation is all"
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Yes, it appears to be a 50/50 custody situation. You said previously, "he wont give me any form of ... [snip!] ... this appears to be), you should not be getting child support and the Child Tax Benefit should be split between both parents."i would willingly split it 50/50 if it is truly 50/50 but as i am adding it up i have them more than he has them I have them EVERYDAY when he drops them off or picks them off hes only had them 7.5 hrs and i have the 17.5 hours.. its not the money i am concerned about and i didnt mean to make it sound that way at all... BUT i am postive its just how it breaks up