Your Personality

What type of personality do you have? How do you react to surprises, bad situations, good things, and all of that? I'm just curious mainly because I am bored. I am WAY to nice of a person. Seriously..it is kind of ridiculous lol. Someone could do the most horrible thing to me and I will be extremely pissed and hurt and then the next day be completely over it and feel extremely bad for ever being mad at them. Why? I have no freaking clue lol. I am HORRIBLE with confrontation even when I know someone else is in the wrong. One example of me being nice..with my ex husband I always made him breakfast in bed..even the last week I was with him knowing that I would be leaving him. And when my current SO was having "issues" with going to the bar and to after parties AFTER I went to bed when I was pregnant with our son I couldn't stay mad at him. The next morning each time I would bring him water and food for his hangover. BUT here is the kicker. It is super hard to get me extremely pissed..and sometimes when I do I get to the point that I black out. I have never physically hurt anyone during these blackouts, but I do scream and yell. It's like I hold things in for so long and then snap. Ugh lol. So..tell me about yourself?

I can be a bitch, and I can also be too nice for my own good and get screwed over by people. But, I also can't handle when people are mad/bitch at me, especially if it's for no reason. I hold grudges over people not treating me right.

Wow I wish I was like you. I'm type a. A bit hostile and more at risk for heart problems and stress. I get upset and mad easy. I tend to over react.

However I am the complete opposite with my daughter. She can color on my tan couch with a sharpie and I don't over react or get upset like I do with other people lol.

Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" Wow I wish I was like you. I'm type a. A bit hostile and more at risk for heart problems and stress. ... [snip!] ... my daughter. She can color on my tan couch with a sharpie and I don't over react or get upset like I do with other people lol."

Trust me, it isn't too fun haha.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" I can be a bitch, and I can also be too nice for my own good and get screwed over by people. But, I also ... [snip!] ... handle when people are mad/bitch at me, especially if it's for no reason. I hold grudges over people not treating me right."

Yeah I can't stand it when people are mad at me either..but in a way that it makes me nervous and sick to my stomach lol

I try to always be kind to everyone and I also try to always be very positive. I'm pretty non confrontational....conflict makes me very uncomfortable, however I will stand up for what I believe is right and I won't let anyone walk all over me. I can be assertive when I need to be, but I always try to be tactful.

I am pushover. Someone could come up and sale me the stupidest thing because I can't say "no" to anyway. I want to please people. It get's me in trouble, too.

As for situations...good, bad, surprising, etc...I have terrible anxiety problems. So I pretty much get very hot and nervous in all of those situations.

I don't do well with surprises, I don't do well accepting gifts either. Like I feel like people expect an awesome reaction out of me but all they get is a smile and a thankyou.

My emotions are hardwired to my tearducts as well   so if I get super mad, I will automatically start crying, it's so frustrating because I'm trying to be mad and yell at someone and I'll look like a snot sobbing baby and hiccup and I'm not able to get the right words out, so then I get more pissed off and just shut up and seethe in silence.

I absolutely have no ability to stay mad at my SO though.. I will be staring daggers at him and he'll just look at me and I can't help but smile, so he thinks I'm not rly mad at him even when I am because my eyes will say "I'm super pissed" but my mouth looks like it's saying "lol JK." -_- I'm guessing I have some super awesome facial expressions... ugh.

I have a hard time expressing myself when I'm sad so I just keep quiet or go somewhere to be alone.

When someone is mad at me, with or without justification, if they start yelling I will cry. It's super stupid lol. I also get panic attacks if OTHERS are fighting and it starts getting violent, even if I have nothing to do with the fight. People are like "This has nothing to do with you, quit your crying and chill the smurf out" While I'm sitting there sobbing and hyperventilating. It's so messed up lol.

Quoting wombie:" I try to always be kind to everyone and I also try to always be very positive. I'm pretty non confrontational....conflict ... [snip!] ... believe is right and I won't let anyone walk all over me. I can be assertive when I need to be, but I always try to be tactful."

Yeah I am getting a little better with not letting people walk all over me! My SO has helped me a ton with that

Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" I am pushover. Someone could come up and sale me the stupidest thing because I can't say "no" to anyway. ... [snip!] ... bad, surprising, etc...I have terrible anxiety problems. So I pretty much get very hot and nervous in all of those situations. "

Yeah I have anxiety too! Definitely understand that lol.

Quoting Katie[ღ]Siℓas:" I don't do well with surprises, I don't do well accepting gifts either. Like I feel like people expect ... [snip!] ... with you, quit your crying and chill the smurf out" While I'm sitting there sobbing and hyperventilating. It's so messed up lol."

I do the same with surprises! lol. And don't you hate not being able to stay mad at your SO? I can't stand that lol. I can never stay mad at him either..it is stupid! Ha. And I kind of understand when others get into a fight. I am always the one to step in and try to help calm the situation.

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" I do the same with surprises! lol. And don't you hate not being able to stay mad at your SO? I can't ... [snip!] ... Ha. And I kind of understand when others get into a fight. I am always the one to step in and try to help calm the situation. "

omg my SO hates when we argue, because I'll just tell him I love him, make him tell me he loves me, in the middle of it. And after, he just wants to be left alone and I try and hug and cuddle him and he's like wtf, leave me alone for a bit. I can't help it

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" I do the same with surprises! lol. And don't you hate not being able to stay mad at your SO? I can't ... [snip!] ... Ha. And I kind of understand when others get into a fight. I am always the one to step in and try to help calm the situation. "

Yes I fricken hate it omg, when he's mad at me I get the silent treatment for hours.. When I'm mad at him, all he's gotta do is look at me and I melt  

Usually my hysterical sobbing will break up the fight because people will stop and look at me like I'm mental lol. I don't even have to say anything and everyones like "wait.. wtf is HER problem? was she even involved in this at all?!" ahaha  

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" omg my SO hates when we argue, because I'll just tell him I love him, make him tell me he loves me, in ... [snip!] ... he just wants to be left alone and I try and hug and cuddle him and he's like wtf, leave me alone for a bit. I can't help it"

Lol! SO knows I can't stay mad at him..no matter what he did, all he has to do is hug me. Dumb. lol. And when SO is mad at me..it is the absolute worst. I don't know what to do..so I just clean and keep busy and have panic attacks and try to not throw up. I don't understand it haha

I'm your typical scorpio. ;) I am crazy shy and awkward. I'm a huge hermit. I'd rather hang out with you on World of Warcraft than hang out with you in real life, then again I have Aspergers. I can be snarky and rude, but not on purpose. I've been told I was arrogant and snobby, which is not true...Sometimes I feel inferior and I come off that way. I love WAY too much, I give more of myself than I let people give to me. Intelligent in some things, ignorant in most things. .but for some reason my friends ask me for advice a lot. Apparently I give good advice, by the way I NEVER take my own.
I'm a big mess of a person.   I don't know how my husband puts up with me!