Quoting Jas ♥:" Be consistent. Your husband needs to be on board. Dogs do not belong in beds (unless its a dog bed) or ... [snip!] ... nights being mixed up, how old is this puppy? I've never had that issue with a dog and we got ours at 7-8 weeks and 9 weeks."
The problem with DH and I is we grew up differently with pets. My dogs were NEVER allowed on any furniture and only allowed in certain rooms. NEVER my moms room (she has a room at our home when she stays in KY). I do not mind the dog in our room. Our dogs were to stay in the living room or kitchen. My dog was allowed to sleep on my bed only with me (but that was forever ago I was like 10 yrs old).
DH and his pets were allowed to lay wherever even now his mother has a dog and has the brother to ours well she allows them to lay on the couch, her bed, and if we don't keep our bedroom door shut at our room (which her dog drags out trash from bathrooms). When they had a cat and his niece was a baby the cat was allowed in the crib (that's a no no to me).
He turned 6 weeks on Saturday. He is the only dog I've had this issue with. All my puppies growing up weren't like this.