re: hubby at the baby shower.

there were several guys at my baby shower (my husband, my daddy, my brother, and my brother's friend came). It honestly made it more fun.

It's a tradition some people follow but not all. Our families are in two different states so we had two showers.
At my side of the family we had men and women and SO was there.

At his side it was a women only shower. The guys all came over and then took the boat out and drank beer and went fishing. And us girls had the shower. It was a blast.

Either way is fine.