ugh it's nice to have confirmation

I just saw my ex tagged his girlfriend on his fb.

My roommate told me he had been cheating on me and left me for another girl but he denied it. I never believed him but it's still nice to know from his own mouth (well...computer) now.

Ugh. He's such a smurfhead omg.

  Are you sure he didn't start seeing her afterwards?

 

Aw I'm sorry mama.

Quoting Meg Bloxham:"   Are you sure he didn't start seeing her afterwards?"

Yes. Maybe not from his mouth but my roommate told me the night after we broke up he'd been talking about her for about three weeks before we broke up. Conveniently the same time he started talking about how he doesn't want to have sex with me "to focus on our relationship" and then started mysteriously having to work all the time so he was never home to even have a smurfing relationship with.

Whatever. I'll watch it crash and smurfing burn because they moved in together immediately after we broke up and he's too immature to handle a real, adult relationship. Just watch, he'll be sniffing back around me by the time our baby is born, tops, and I'm not going to deal with that smurf. He could have had a wonderful relationship with me because I'm willing to actually fight for my family... and he smurfed it up because he's a little bitch /shrug

Did you manage to get off the lease yet

Quoting Raωkeℓ:"   Aw I'm sorry mama."

Thanks. I am too but... I'm really not even sweating it. I deserve better /shrug

Quoting Misty Walls:" Did you manage to get off the lease yet"

I'm not trying to get off the lease, it's much cheaper here and a nice big house. I don't want to squish the three of us in a 1bdrm apartment  

He is an smurf.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" Thanks. I am too but... I'm really not even sweating it. I deserve better /shrug"

Yea you do, smurf that.

Sorry. He's an ass. "/

It sucks because she has two kids. So you know that when they break up those little girls are going to get their hearts broken - just like mine did.

We should be allowed to tattoo dudes like this. SINGLE MOMS BEWARE.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" It sucks because she has two kids. So you know that when they break up those little girls are going to ... [snip!] ... are going to get their hearts broken - just like mine did. We should be allowed to tattoo dudes like this. SINGLE MOMS BEWARE."

Aw, that sucks. He'll never realize that it's never healthy for children to see that kind of relationship...ugh, that's so sad.

And   at the tattoo idea.

Quoting Raωkeℓ:" Aw, that sucks. He'll never realize that it's never healthy for children to see that kind of relationship...ugh, that's so sad. And   at the tattoo idea."

Can you like write it into a custody agreement that you can't bring a love interest around your kid until x amount of time? He's the only boyfriend I introduced my daughter to that wasn't a friend beforehand, and I only did that because I was pregnant and he convinced me we were going to be a family. I don't want him doing this smurf to Gwen because it seems to be a serial habit of his. My roommate lived with him for a little over a year and she said he had about 6 girlfriends in that time, all single moms. He was around most of their kids and none lasted more than 3 months. We barely lasted 4.

I wish I'd known all this smurf before, ugh.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" Can you like write it into a custody agreement that you can't bring a love interest around your kid ... [snip!] ... around most of their kids and none lasted more than 3 months. We barely lasted 4. I wish I'd known all this smurf before, ugh."

Yep.
BD and I have our agreement that no significant other will meet our son until we're exclusively dating 6 months.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" Can you like write it into a custody agreement that you can't bring a love interest around your kid ... [snip!] ... around most of their kids and none lasted more than 3 months. We barely lasted 4. I wish I'd known all this smurf before, ugh."

OH and holy smurf- this dude has some serious issues.