Quoting Ashley; Kenley's Mommy!:" Wow. How rude. His child comes first and that's how it should be, even over him. Why would you marry him if you knew he had a child?"
For the record, I was actually really pleasant to the boy when he came around considering the feelings I have for not wanting any children.
He has an absurdly jealous and psychotic baby mother that only wants him to spend time with her son alone (or away from me).
All I'm saying is I agree with that for my own reasons that you are already aware of.