Quoting TromboneMethod:" because I wanted to see what people thought about this situation "

So now you see that you being a selfish bitch!

all I can do is pray this little boy doesn't get affected by all this and that she DOES NOT ever adopt a child. Some people should not be mothers, clearly she is one of them. Which is extremely sad because there is no greater joy in life then being a mother or parent. The fact she is denying her husband that right with his own child is absolutely disgusting and if I were him she would be out on the curb with tomorrows garbage  

You have every right to not want to be a mother, but they why marry someone with a child?? Do the right thing and leave... your hubby and his son will be better off in the long run!

Quoting runningmom_rn:" all I can do is pray this little boy doesn't get affected by all this and that she DOES NOT ever adopt ... [snip!] ... why marry someone with a child?? Do the right thing and leave... your hubby and his son will be better off in the long run!"

 

Quoting TromboneMethod:" because I wanted to see what people thought about this situation "

people.. as in MOTHERS.. a site called BABY GAGA.. aka baby talk.. aka moms talking about their babies and smurf..

you should of found a forum for childless women... they may have given you better advice.

Quoting Olivia Foxworth:" So now you see that you being a selfish bitch!"

no I don't think people are being very reasonable right now
I shouldnt have mentioned the no child part, that probably made people biased
Anyways people are only saying that they think that my husband is not inconsiderate
that does not necessarily mean they think I am being selfish
I have my needs
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, my husband should be willing to accommodate

"HE KNOWS I DONT WANT CHILDREN & DONT WANT OUR LIVING ENVIRONMENT TO SEEM LIKE WE DO"

So you join a parenting site...makes sense.  

Quoting TromboneMethod:" no I don't think people are being very reasonable right now I shouldnt have mentioned the no child part, ... [snip!] ... I am being selfish I have my needs Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, my husband should be willing to accommodate "

 

You're the unreasonable one. You are selfish. You should be the one accommodating him.

Quoting October Rust:" "HE KNOWS I DONT WANT CHILDREN & DONT WANT OUR LIVING ENVIRONMENT TO SEEM LIKE WE DO" So you join a parenting site...makes sense.  "

And she married a man with a child

<blockquote><b>Quoting TromboneMethod:</b>" no I don't think people are being very reasonable right now I shouldnt have mentioned the no child part, ... [snip!] ... I am being selfish I have my needs Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, my husband should be willing to accommodate "</blockquote>




Do another poll! ;-)

Yes we think are you selfish. And marriage is a partnership you are correct, problem is YOU are not being accomodating to the fact your husband has a child. You shouldn't have to accomodate that. He is a human being. You talk about this boy like he is disposable.

Quoting sταrry skies:" And she married a man with a child"

  That too!

Anyone else think she likes drama a bit too much and this is just all fun for her??? I've said more than enough, so I'm done with it. Attention seeking behaviour is not for me, and she obviously needs more help than we can give her. So let's all just leave this alone. And let her get back to her selfish, head in the clouds life  

Quoting runningmom_rn:" Anyone else think she likes drama a bit too much and this is just all fun for her??? I've said more than ... [snip!] ... help than we can give her. So let's all just leave this alone. And let her get back to her selfish, head in the clouds life  "

   

Any parent should put their child first so if i was your hubby I would put my kid first and leave you!!! His son should be loved by you not referred to as THE BOY and not sentenced to having to spend time with his dad at his grandmas and not be able to spend the night with his daddy!!!

Dafuq i just read? Lmfao, where the hell do these people come come?!