My husband is being completely inconsiderate, do you agree?

posted 10th Dec

Quoting TromboneMethod:" Don't get me wrong kids and babies can be cute it's just not for me. People seem to think that a woman ... [snip!] ... grow inside me makes me feel physically sick. I'm okay with adopting. The girl we saw last week wasn't as great as we thought."

WTF does that mean?

I live in Florida

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posted 10th Dec

<blockquote>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" CPOM!! OMG, please do."</blockquote>

do it for me please!!! Ican't copy and paste from my phone, lol...

I have 3 kids & live in Venezuela

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posted 10th Dec

I honestly don't know whats with you people. I think its because I don't want to have kids.
Thats a pretty bad reason. I don't ask other people why they want to have kids and then point out why you shouldn't have them. But whatever, let them consider me a weirdo I am happy with my decision.

I live in Japan

☮ Phuket

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting TromboneMethod:" Don't get me wrong kids and babies can be cute it's just not for me. People seem to think that a woman ... [snip!] ... grow inside me makes me feel physically sick. I'm okay with adopting. The girl we saw last week wasn't as great as we thought."

OMG......you keep getting worse and worse.. that poor baby wasnt "perfect: enough.. you really are a smurf, and im pretty sure you will win.

quote smurfs?

I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting S U Z I E:" <blockquote>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" CPOM!! OMG, please do."</blockquote> do it for me please!!! Ican't copy and paste from my phone, lol..."

? I'd like to know what CPOM means please

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posted 10th Dec

<blockquote>Quoting TromboneMethod:" What does CPOM mean?"</blockquote>

It means you're a bitch and you win a prize!! I would say good luck but you probably don't need it, lol...

I have 3 kids & live in Venezuela

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Olivia Foxworth

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting TromboneMethod:" I honestly don't know whats with you people. I think its because I don't want to have kids. Thats a ... [snip!] ... kids and then point out why you shouldn't have them. But whatever, let them consider me a weirdo I am happy with my decision."

NO one said you have to have kids, but you married a man with a child, that child will be in his life forever!! and if you are married he will be in yours too!

I have 3 kids & live in Albuquerque, New Mexico

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Loco Ono

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posted 10th Dec

<blockquote>Quoting TromboneMethod:" Don't get me wrong kids and babies can be cute it's just not for me. People seem to think that a woman ... [snip!] ... grow inside me makes me feel physically sick. I'm okay with adopting. The girl we saw last week wasn't as great as we thought."</blockquote>

Not as great as you thought? She's a child! They don't come with refunds!

I have 1 child & live in Arizona

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting TromboneMethod:" I honestly don't know whats with you people. I think its because I don't want to have kids. Thats a ... [snip!] ... kids and then point out why you shouldn't have them. But whatever, let them consider me a weirdo I am happy with my decision."

why are you on this site?

if you wanted advice about being a mom, from moms, this is the place, if you are bitching about how being pregnant makes you sick to your stomach and how a baby wasnt up to your standards, you wnt get any good "advice"

WHY ARE YOU HERE?

I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting TromboneMethod:" ? I'd like to know what CPOM means please"

ahahahahaahahah......

I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting Love Muffin:" <blockquote>Quoting TromboneMethod:" Don't get me wrong kids and babies can ... [snip!] ... wasn't as great as we thought."</blockquote> Not as great as you thought? She's a child! They don't come with refunds!"

I'm sure you wouldnt like your kid that much if she was whiny and rude.
There were religious differences we couldnt over come anyways
But thats not the point

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Moses.

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posted 10th Dec

OP, listen. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong to want your life to remain child free. Not everyone is cut out to be a child-person. Nothing is wrong with that. However, you married a man with a child. It really is not fair to him. He is a father, who is obviously devoted to his child. I can only imagine he would want his wife to share that with him.

I'm due October 28th, have 3 kids & live in Texas

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mαkαnαni

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting TromboneMethod:" I honestly don't know whats with you people. I think its because I don't want to have kids. Thats a ... [snip!] ... kids and then point out why you shouldn't have them. But whatever, let them consider me a weirdo I am happy with my decision."

It's not that you don't want to have kids. It's the way you refer to your step-son and think your husband's inconsiderate for being with his child.

I live in Florida

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posted 10th Dec

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" why are you on this site? if you wanted advice about being a mom, from moms, this is the place, ... [snip!] ... makes you sick to your stomach and how a baby wasnt up to your standards, you wnt get any good "advice" WHY ARE YOU HERE?"

because I wanted to see what people thought about this situation

I live in Japan

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