Quoting TromboneMethod:" His baby's mother may change her mind in the future but considering the facts: she was with this man ... [snip!] ... for him to marry a woman he's only known for a year. I would be bitter as hell if this were me, so my odds are looking good."
Ok I have nothing to say about the child's mother BUT YOU are the one I have the issue with. I can see why she wouldn't want the boy around you. Do you not see that?? It is YOU keeping your hubby's son from him. If I were your husband I would be spending the night at grandpa's with my son, not with my wife who is completely unsupportive of having a son. This is disgusting. I feel so sorry for your hubby and his son. And my question is why is your hubby with you if he doesn't get to be around his son because of you. ugh... poor son!!
You aren't doing anyone but yourself a favour. A father needs his son and a son needs his father.