<blockquote><b>Quoting TromboneMethod:</b>" I am a childfree, happily married woman to a husband with a 4 year old son from a previous relationship. ... [snip!] ... to say the least (and pretty pissed). HE KNOWS I DONT WANT CHILDREN & DONT WANT OUR LIVING ENVIRONMENT TO SEEM LIKE WE DO."</blockquote>




Nope! But I think you're inconsiderate!!

I would think actually that YOU are the inconsiderate one NOT your husband. I think that is is awful he has to see his own child at his mother's and does NOT get to spend overnights with him. You married him knowing he had a child.

I'm sorry but there is no way you can be happily married, maybe you are but I do not see how your hubby could be happy with you. Maybe instead of thinking of yourself and how inconsiderate your hubby is... you should look in a mirror and see how selfish YOU are being!!

Eeek that was a little harsh... When you married him it was a package deal- kid & babys mom included. What's wrong with having his toys and car seat around? Geez, I would be pissed if I was him too.

You not only married him, you married his son. His son will always come first.
You are one rotten bitch, he made a big mistake marrying you. Poor guy.

'the boy'?

good grief
id be pissed if i was your husband too.

Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" Wow, your an smurf."

   

What in the smurf OP...?
At the start of your post I was like "oh thats nice, your being considerate of the childs mother" but by the end I realised you're just a selfish smurf...  

Quoting Love Muffin:" You don't have kids? Because in your post from December 2nd you talked about how you have a daughter, and the name paisley..."

If you read the thread, that was about a daughter I was potentially adopting.
I changed my mind.

Quoting Love Muffin:" You don't have kids? Because in your post from December 2nd you talked about how you have a daughter, and the name paisley..."

lol

Quoting runningmom_rn:" I would think actually that YOU are the inconsiderate one NOT your husband. I think that is is awful ... [snip!] ... of thinking of yourself and how inconsiderate your hubby is... you should look in a mirror and see how selfish YOU are being!!"

His baby's mother may change her mind in the future but considering the facts: she was with this man for 6 years, had a son by him b4 they split up, got dumped only for him to marry a woman he's only known for a year. I would be bitter as hell if this were me, so my odds are looking good.

<blockquote><b>Quoting TromboneMethod:</b>" For the record, I was actually really pleasant to the boy when he came around considering the feelings ... [snip!] ... with her son alone (or away from me).

I wouldn't want any of my kids around you either!!

Quoting TromboneMethod:" His baby's mother may change her mind in the future but considering the facts: she was with this man ... [snip!] ... for him to marry a woman he's only known for a year. I would be bitter as hell if this were me, so my odds are looking good."

sounds like you were just the rebound honestly

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" You not only married him, you married his son. His son will always come first. You are one rotten bitch, he made a big mistake marrying you. Poor guy."

No man want's his wife and his baby's mother going at it all the time. She's very provoking.
I am doing him a favor.

Meh, you married a man with a child.........

<blockquote><b>Quoting TromboneMethod:</b>" For the record, I was actually really pleasant to the boy when he came around considering the feelings ... [snip!] ... with her son alone (or away from me). All I'm saying is I agree with that for my own reasons that you are already aware of."</blockquote>




Does "the boy" have a name???? Wow, you're an smurf!!!!
CPOM?

Quoting TromboneMethod:" His baby's mother may change her mind in the future but considering the facts: she was with this man ... [snip!] ... for him to marry a woman he's only known for a year. I would be bitter as hell if this were me, so my odds are looking good."

Way to bash your own hubby wow bitch