Quoting 2 Baby Girls:" Hi! I have 2 SS ages almost 4 and 6. Me and SO have only been married since June, and only together since ... [snip!] ... mom is trying to get 1/2 and 1/2 custody which is impractical since they live 45 minutes away and it makes school impossible."
Hi! Thanks for adding to this!- Congrats on getting married, my husband and I got together in Feb, pregnant in May and married in August!
Maybe try a week on, week off, that was one of our suggestions when my hubs and I went to court over his son. The only reason is was shot down was because he has a one year old little bro and is about to have a sister so we felt like it may be too much time away from them! Also if that is an option make sure the driving is equal and try to find a meet spot in the middle so you guys don't get stuck driving so far!