re: DH thinks we should have an abortion

Quoting Mrs Stroming:" There's lots of ppl who would love to have children and can't. If you can't financially support it give it up for adoption. Abortion is not the answer"

Sometimes it is

I was kind of in your position at first..except it was me who wanted to the abortion because I wasnt technically with the father, no car, no money at all, and living with someone else who barley had any room for me to live there, much less a baby. I ended up deciding against it and everything has completely worked out for me..I'm with the father, were doing ok with money, I'm not living in the same place, we have a car, and Everything and more or what the baby needs.
Things can absolutely work out for the better!

Quoting Mrs Stroming:" There's lots of ppl who would love to have children and can't. If you can't financially support it give it up for adoption. Abortion is not the answer"

Not her fault, not her problem, not her job to make children for people who cannot..
Don't be a smurf.

We r having our second child and definitely not in the best financial place, but abortion never even crossed my hubbys mind. We r working on how to handle things and have gotten ready for baby over th last 9 months. We have diapers, wet wipes, clothes, etc stocked up so as to not put such a strain on us financially. There r ways to get thru the hard times. Good luck hun.

Quoting Mrs Stroming:" There's lots of ppl who would love to have children and can't. If you can't financially support it give it up for adoption. Abortion is not the answer"

It's not her fault you cannot have children. Don't try and make her feel worse about it, jeez!

Quoting Mrs Stroming:" There's lots of ppl who would love to have children and can't. If you can't financially support it give it up for adoption. Abortion is not the answer"

Sometimes abortion IS the answer. smurf.

Quoting Mama Karma [4 weeks]:" right now financially we are NOT in the best place to add a baby...he thinks we should consider abortion. ... [snip!] ... an abortion i wont he cant make me i will do EVERYTHING I can to keep our family fed and clothed with a roof over our heads"

Amen and God Bless to you!

Quoting Mrs Stroming:" There's lots of ppl who would love to have children and can't. If you can't financially support it give it up for adoption. Abortion is not the answer"

Adoption isnt always the answer either.... I would have an abortion and place it for adoption....

Talk with you DH though, because you never know what will happen in the next 9ish months. Things change,people change the entire atmosphere changes. Maybe this a blessing in disguise.

Quoting Kimber-lily:" I suppose in the end it is your choice, and your choice only. But since he is your husband I think he ... [snip!] ... makes your other children suffer in a sense. If your finances do not improve in the next 9 months I would look into adoption."

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I agree.

Abortion is NEVER the answer. EVER. If you cannot afford another baby right now, find a couple that cannot have a baby and offer to give them the baby.

Quoting Amber Mosher:" Abortion is NEVER the answer. EVER. If you cannot afford another baby right now, find a couple that cannot have a baby and offer to give them the baby."

As I have already said to the other woman..

It's not her problem, it's not her fault, and it's not her responsibility to have children for people who cannot have children.

Abortion is the answer sometimes..

Stop being a smurf.

Quoting Amber Mosher:" Abortion is NEVER the answer. EVER. If you cannot afford another baby right now, find a couple that cannot have a baby and offer to give them the baby."

There is so much wrong with what you just said.... Im not going to get into it. But for you to say oh yeah offer your child to someone and see if they want it because you cant afford it...

Abortion is the answer sometimes... I would do abortion rather than do adoption..


OP.. I think you need to sit down with your husband and figure things out. I wish the best for you.

Quoting Kimber-lily:" As I have already said to the other woman.. It's not her problem, it's not her fault, and it's not ... [snip!] ... responsibility to have children for people who cannot have children. Abortion is the answer sometimes.. Stop being a smurf."

I'm not being a smurf, I'm simply stating my opinion like everyone else.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" There is so much wrong with what you just said.... Im not going to get into it. But for you to say oh ... [snip!] ... than do adoption.. OP.. I think you need to sit down with your husband and figure things out. I wish the best for you. "

So you'd rather kill a baby than have it live with someone who can care for it?