Quoting Madre2012:" So my fiance and I just had our first baby 3 weeks ago, and he now works from 5 or 7 am to 3 pm. So I'm ... [snip!] ... blows my mind! Is he not ready to be a father, or does he just not care? Sorry it's so long, I've had this pent up for a while."
First off, how old is LO?
My bd is still an smurf but even as an smurf he got a lot better with taking care of LO as she got older.
He now does a lot more housework and bathing her and feeding her etc.. (she's 4 btw) It took a while for him to start doing things.