Faking pregnancy? UPDATED!
posted 10th Dec
Update on page 38.
I don't even know where to start with this smurf. Buckle up kids because this will be long but I want to know if ANY of this makes any sense at all to you. Because it doesn't make any sense to me.
WAAAYYY back when I first found out I was pregnant with LO, my brother's girlfriend called me and asked if it was possible to get pregnant on mirena. I told her that it happened occasionally. So she goes on to say she thought she was pregnant and she was puking, yada yada. I told her to test. A couple days later my brother calls me all excited, she's pregnant. Cool. I'm excited for them because this will be his first. Now here's where it all gets... weird.
She goes to her first doctor's appointment, she refuses to let my brother go with her. She comes home with an ultrasound picture on printer paper. Not ultrasound paper. No name on it or anything. She claimed her insurance wouldn't pay for the paper they're printed on so she took a picture with her camera and printed it at the library. She also claimed that because she still had the mirena inside her, she had to go to an imaging center to have her ultrasounds done. Now, she is supposedly going to MY OB. Who I happen to know does all of his ultrasounds in office unless you need a level 2 ultrasound or something. But whatever, I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt. So anyways, MY OB gave her a due date of October 28th based on an 8 week ultrasound. Which would have been 10 days behind me, I know because I was excited that we might have our kids at the same time.
Fast forward a few weeks and she's having a 14 week ultrasound done, for some smurfing reason, again same lines about having to go to an imagining center, she won't let my brother go with her. But this time she come back with some blurry as smurf pictures on her cell phone. Same claim about her insurance not wanting to pay for the paper. She also says her due date had been moved up 2 weeks and she's now due Nov 11th. I almost called bullsmurf right then because, correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't the earlier ultrasounds the most accurate as far as predicting due date?
So, then we come to her gender ultrasound. Which she supposedly had at 18 weeks. Same smurf as before, wouldn't let my brother come to that either. She took a "video" with her phone this time. Now, here's the best part though. They pushed her due date again, she's now due Nov 27th. Fishy right? If you're measuring a MONTH off from your original due date, surely they would think something is wrong. Remember, she's supposed to be seeing the same OB I do and I KNOW he would have been concerned with that. So anyways, she says she's having a boy.
Not long after that a girl they both work with tells my brother she's not really pregnant. He does some investigating and comes to find out, she had her then pregnant friend pee in a cup FOR her to take the original test. So naturally my brother is beyond pissed and confronts her about it. She swears up and down that she really is pregnant and that the girl from work is lying. So he tells her that she needs to prove it. So she tells him she'll take another test, he goes to the store and picks up a few. When he gets back the pregnant friend is at their house. But she takes him in the bathroom and dips the tests in a cup of pee. They come back positive. He believes her. I didn't. But he's so excited by this point I don't want to hurt his feelings and I keep my mouth shut.
Not long after that she quits going to the doctor completely. My poor uneducated brother calls me all the time with some question about "is this normal? Can you talk her into going to the doctor? Etc, etc." Fast forward to today, she is 13 days overdue. Friday she went to the doctor, or so she said. Again, MY OB. He tells her that she's having the baby today at 2 o'clock. She's supposed to have a scheduled c-section. She claims he didn't do any blood work, no ultrasound, not even an NST to check on the baby. Now, I know my doctor and I KNOW that he wouldn't do that especially considering she hasn't been seen for any kind of prenatal care since she was at the beginning of her second trimester. She again, wouldn't let my brother go with her so he doesn't know if she went or not. But it gets better. My brother left work at noon so they could grab all her bags and get to the hospital. He gets home and she tells him she's not having the baby today. That she'd already been to see the doctor and he's postponing the c-section for another week. Why you ask? Because she has bronchitis and he wants her to take antibiotics first. Smfh. My OB lets NONE of his patients go past 41 weeks pregnant. He just flatly refuses to do it. He won't be responsible for something happening after that. I cannot imagine he would let her go into her 44TH week of pregnancy over bronchitis. That's a damn malpractice suit waiting to happen. I mean, have any of you ever heard of anything like that? We all think she's faked this pregnancy all along. My brother refuses to see it though. I am so beyond pissed for him. What do you ladies think? None of it adds up, does it?