Finding out the gender

How many of you have had one or the other find out the baby's gender but the other one not? If one of you did find out, did you or they tell other people?

With our first we both didn't want to find out - with our second, I didn't want to, my husband did, but I didn't like the idea of him knowing and not me. With our third (when it happens!) my husband wants to find out really bad and I still don't want to, but I think I trust him enough to keep it a secret. I'm just wondering if anyone else has done this and how their experience was.

Watching ** my husband wants to know, I do not